Hello Sam,
I've never tried sex toys so I will try it.
& yes, when I masturbate I have to fantasize about the things I want my boyfriend to do to me to mentally turn me on.

Hey Jacob, Trust me, I've been writing lots of erotica novels but I can't stimulate myself through masturbation. I've been trying for 4 years now & yet still, I feel nothing. It's just unbelievable. I mean, I know where my G-Spot is, I stimulate it buy I feel nothing. But when I pull out my fing...

I choose to masturbate when I want sex but can't get it at the moment.

Help please Alice

Thanks a lot Alice.
That was very helpful.

I always write out what I want to tell him, but when I'm with him, I'm afraid to speak about the topic.

But you were very helpful & I shall still try this out.

No I don't feel arousal... I don't feel anything.
But when someone else other than myself fingers me, I feel aroused.

Thanks a lot Mo.
You have been very helpful.

But everytime I want to speak to him about it, it's not that easy for me. I'm afraid.
But I will surely try.

Once again, thank you.

I am in a happy relationship with lots of enjoyable sex. However, I have lots of fetishes that I am afraid to ask out of from my partner. I mean, we have great communication as i will do anything he asks of me, but I am just afraid to ask him to do me the things I like. I Love to receive oral & ...

:cry: Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl who is in a relationship with a guy. I'm very much sexually active & I love sex. But the problem I have is that, everytime I go about masturbating, I feel no pleasure at all. Nothing. I insert either 1 or 2 fingers & I go around by flicking them up & dow...

:cry: Hi, I'm a 19 year old girl who is in a relationship with a guy. I'm very much sexually active & I love sex. But the problem I have is that, everytime I go about masturbating, I feel no pleasure at all. Nothing. I insert either 1 or 2 fingers & I go around by flicking them up & down...