Thanks, Sofi. I really appreciate the help.

Sofi wrote: you could simply tell them the long distance got the best of you.

I've been debating on that because my mother during the fall would ask me if he and I were still together.

Hey Sabine, I asked my boyfriend for permission to sleep with someone else who lives closer to me and he broke up with me. I told him that I wouldn't do anything that he wouldn't want me to do. But then he told me that he thinks we should go our separate ways. I then called him and asked him to giv...

I would like to tell my family. But I'm scared about how they'll react. I have talked to some friends about it and they are very supportive when it comes down to my feelings.

Hey Sam,
I haven't contacted him for like about almost two weeks now. And I'm doing better. But I haven't tole my family that he and I broke up because I don't know what to tell them. And I am being reminded of him less and less as time goes on. The first week or so after the break up I was a mess.

Hey. So a couple of weeks ago I was feeling kind of horny while in a long distance relationship. I asked my boyfriend if I could rid myself of those sorts of feelings if they build up. I had tried masturbating and it didn't help. I even told him that. He said that I crossed a line by talking about t...

Hey Sabine, I asked my boyfriend for permission to sleep with someone else who lives closer to me and he broke up with me. I told him that I wouldn't do anything that he wouldn't want me to do. But then he told me that he thinks we should go our separate ways. I then called him and asked him to give...

I mean he also supports me. When I was healing from my broken femur last year, he helped me get to my classes even if it made him late. I mean he and I weren't dating then. But still

Thanks Karyn. He just got his stitches out on Monday and then my dog got into a fight with our neighbor's dog who happens to be part pit bull and I ran out there (without shoes) as soon as I heard both of my dogs barking. And now my foot is bruised. My boyfriend said Why do you always get hurt? Lol ...

Thanks, Alice. He really needs support right now just like I needed support when I was healing from my broken leg

That sounds doubly frustrating. :( It really is a bummer how the pandemic is delaying all sorts of important things right now. I hope you're able to comfort your boyfriend from afar and that he's doing okay. Yeah. I know I can comfort him from afar. Because yesterday he and I were talking and I bro...

Yep. I just wish I could be there with him to comfort him. But quarantine is going longer. Which also prolongs me getting my braces off.

I actually do feel good about continuing the long distance relationship. But I did just get some terrible news from him. He just told me that his family's dog attacked them last night and they had to go to the hospital and get stitches.

So basically what he said was that he thinks the long distance relationship between him and I could work out.

It doesn't want to work. I guess I'll just tell you what he said.

Hey- So I plan on taking a screenshot of my conversation with my boyfriend. But I will cross out anything that I feel I don't want to share with others (i.e. his and my names and stuff like that). And then I would add that screenshot to this thread.

Sure thing! There are a few different ways you could start it. One would be to check in about the long-distance element of your relationship; in other words, you want to talk to him about how's it going or how he's feeling about it. Or, depending on how soon the move is, you could come at it from t...

Hey- I'm still confused on how to start off the conversation. Could I get a few suggestions on how to start it?

Ok. Thanks so much.

Hey Amanda,
I haven't had the chance to talk with him yet. I was busy all weekend.

Ok. Thanks. I was just wondering.

Thank you. Quick question though: should I first ask him if he wants to talk about what we are going to stay together once I move?

Yeah. I mean he probably might want to talk about it's not clear. I might ask him today. Thanks for your help, Sam. I really appreciate it.

Sam, The long distance relationship is going pretty well. But we miss each other a lot. And I am willing to have that conversation, I just don't know how to start is off. I also don't know if he wants to have that conversation either.

Hi Siân, Hi solareclipse02, Big changes can be hard. So I'm clear, are you and your this person planning on trying a relationship long-distance, or are you breaking up? Have you spoken at all about what moving means for the two of you? I couldn't remember my original account's password. So I made a ...