Those were some big shares. Thanks for trusting me with all of that. Honestly, hearing all of that extra context, none of this is surprising to me. I'm going to bounce around a little bit with some things: feel free when I'm done to ask me to say more about any of these things or to talk with me ab...

Hi Marcella, This detail is all super-helpful, thank you! From what you're describing, it sounds like there are a couple of different things that are likely causing this lack of pleasure. Trauma from abuse is certainly one, and things like being sexually abused, even if you're were very young at th...

Hi :) thank you for getting back to me! 1) I’ve never actually masturbated as a result of being aroused. Masturbation has never been something that I felt naturally drawn to. I just did it because I knew it was a normal thing that everyone does and wanted to be able to orgasm and feel pleasure like ...

I am 24 years old and am worried that there’s something wrong with my vagina/vulva/clitoris. And more specifically that I am unable to feel sexual pleasure in that area. I have tried masturbating for years - using different vibrators and lube, different methods. I’ve tried fantasising. I’ve tried st...