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by ALS234
Sun May 03, 2015 6:00 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Re: Need help grasping the facts

Do you have any more information on why sperm can't get through even one pair of underwear? I can't seem to let it go that maybe it did indeed get through. I spoke with a nurse once and she said that I shouldn't say it's impossible and that I can never be too careful. That's why I'm still freaking o...
by ALS234
Sun May 03, 2015 3:46 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Re: Need help grasping the facts

I can't wait to be able to use these once my finals are over! I'm so ready to let this fear go, and I need to realize that it's all in my head. Am I being annoying because I'm constantly on here worrying? I can understand that it would annoy you, and I'm really sorry about that!
by ALS234
Sun May 03, 2015 3:12 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Re: Need help grasping the facts

Do you have any techniques that I could try to lessen my anxiety?
by ALS234
Sun May 03, 2015 2:20 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Re: Need help grasping the facts

Haha okay I understand. I'm just so desperate for someone to smack me on the head and tell me I'm crazy for being so worried about this! Lol. I know the steps of moving forward are things like not looking up horror stories about having period-like bleeding, multiple negative pregnancy tests, and not...
by ALS234
Sun May 03, 2015 1:49 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Re: Need help grasping the facts

Could you please answer me this? If you were in my shoes, and participated in an act that was either a non-risk or an extremely low risk (can't even remember if our clothed genitals even grazed each other and after he ejaulated into a paper towel after a handjob, I made sure we both wiped our hands ...
by ALS234
Sun May 03, 2015 11:16 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Re: Need help grasping the facts

I will be pretty busy over the summer because I'm in charge of putting on freshman orientation and that is a lot of work, but it's going to be hard for me to focus on that instead of my scare. Is there anything you think I can tell myself to nip this fear in the bud as soon as possible? I don't want...
by ALS234
Sun May 03, 2015 1:59 am
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Re: Need help grasping the facts

I haven't really had a structured sleep schedule because I stay up all night studying. Usually I'll go to bed around 5 am, and before actually falling asleep I always reenact what happened that night that is causing me so much worry because that was the bed we were in. Right before falling asleep I ...
by ALS234
Sat May 02, 2015 1:06 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Re: Need help grasping the facts

Thank you for your reply! The only technique this far she has suggested would be to write out my fears and then write out the facts next to them and compare how they make me feel. I do this a lot, but I'm always worried that I have the facts wrong even though I've read almost every page on this site...
by ALS234
Fri May 01, 2015 8:07 pm
Forum: Supporting Each Other
Topic: Need help grasping the facts
Replies: 17
Views: 8118

Need help grasping the facts

Hi everyone, I've been posting on here the past few months about a pregnancy scare I have that occurred Feb 28. From what I remember, neither of us took our underwear off (although his boxers did have a peek hole), we never intentionally rubbed our areas together, and when he ejaculated, it was nowh...