i probably am doing some comparing and you’re right that i should probably think less about what i’m “supposed” to want and feel so i’ll try to do my best to take that into consideration more. i want to say that i do have a sex drive that maybe while it hasn’t been directed at one specific person so...

i definitely think i could be bi or pan. i feel no confliction of any kind with thinking about girls as attractive. i definitely think that they are. so i’m totally open to that. and yeah? i guess i do feel some desire for sex? just definitely not the same amount as i feel like i’m supposed to and i...

in regard to counteracting messages i’ve mostly just been doing a lot of reading that encourages like body acceptance and empowerment and that sort of thing. i do enjoy cuddling and kissing is pretty good. and while intercourse feels good to me (a bit more than just “fine”) he really enjoyed it and ...

i feel that it’s partially what wasn’t said opposed to what was. i straight up didn’t know sex was a thing until like middle school and no one ever said anything about masturbating so i never tried. my dads side is very religious so it was always about like saving it (when i did know about it) . it ...

i do feel like part of my brain is pulling away when i masturbate but only after a few minutes of trying to completely focus on feelings of “pleasure”. i get frustrated that nothing is really happening and that’s when part of my brain starts pulling away. i feel like maybe some of those messages fro...

thanks for the additional reading i’ll get on that asap. in reference to your questions typically when i get aroused it’s not to porn. porn doesn’t do anything for me and i think it’s because it’s so obviously fake? i’m not sure if that makes sense. nor does thinking about a sexually situation with ...

1) sometimes i’m kind of turned on and sometimes i’m not. i don’t often feel like i HAVE to masturbate though i rarely feel that way actually. most of the time when i try it’s because i’m curious to feel what it would feel like to orgasm. most of the time when i already feel turned on and i try to m...

hi i’ve read a lot of posts but i’m still frustrated with my situation and i’m hoping someone can explain to me what’s going on. i’m 16 years old and can only remember reaching orgasm once before in my life and i was 10 (when i didn’t even know what masturbation was). for years i’ve been trying to m...