I’m going to college early August and have had some experience but nothing more than intense make out. The fact that atm I’ll be going to college as a virgin is something that won’t stop creeping into the back of my mind at ALL times. I’m nervous that once I get to college I’ll never go there becaus...

yeah that sounds doable and a good way to pace myself. i don’t even truly want to get crazy deep/personal with him yet. just being around him and laughing is what i want and really desire

I do have a hard time showing and feeling vulnerable to my family but not my friends. my family is just pretty judgmental and have always shown a stigma in that being weak is a bad thing. With my friends i will be pretty vulnerable but only with a set three of them and I’m fine with that. I think th...

Yes, the vulnerability that it involves scares me so much it’s bad

ummm, maybe that part of me feels like i want to hold back because i’m not ready to have someone emotionally involved with me because this situation seems like it could actually work out in my favor and it’s scary....?

yeah i’m definitely willing to just get to know him and hang out with out it being a date. because i’m not even sure if i want a relationship. i kind of just want to be in his company, and i’m excited to see where things are going because yesterday we had a party at work and we talked a lot and it g...

Yeah we both at separate times suggested hanging out

Thanks! And i think we’re both still actually getting to know each other more because i’ve only worked here a couple of months (since September) but we have plans to hang out soon and I just don’t even know how to go about making that plan come to life

soo, i work in a restaurant and i am part of the front of the house but sometimes i’m in the kitchen for a shift. from the first day i started, me and this guy just vibed really well together and i have a hugee crush on him. there have been a couple instances where we flirt and he even called me cut...

I honestly feel like it wouldn’t really impact our relationship much. Is that a good or bad thing? Because it’s like if I did tell him I feel like his response would be something like “okay” rather than like rejecting me or feeling the same way. (if that makes any sense)

I am completely lost on his feelings in that type of way. I know he loves and cares about me and i reciprocate that in all ways. Maybe it is just personal issues manifesting into this “love?”

Yes it is doable and yeah we talk a lot and nothing is crazy awkward or anything. Thanks so much!

Very much so. You’re point on with all of those things. I feel like atm I’d like to focus on you’re number 1 because I feel like that’s what affects me most directly on a day to day basis.

I feel if I asked it would be a possibility. I just don’t know how I’d approach the situation

Context: I had a party while my mom was on vacation. Probably 20 people at the max of the party, and 12-14 slept over because I didn’t want anyone driving under the influence. At the end of the night we all gathered in the living room on couches and the floor and watched a bunch of movies. At the ti...

I am 17, a teenage girl, have social media. I am overweight but it’s quite evenly distributed throughout my body (like I don’t have really skinny legs and a big stomach or big legs and a small looking stomach). I don’t even want to say my weight while typing this it’s so unbearable to think about. I...

My best friend and I have been best friends for 7 years. We’ve gone through everything, grown up together, talked about our lives in 2am conversations, been completely vulnerable with each other (emotionally), slept over each other’s houses when our parents were pissing us off, went on a week long v...