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by Robinjen
Mon Aug 17, 2015 11:14 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ashamed, but can't stop
Replies: 13
Views: 2655

Re: Ashamed, but can't stop

Thank you for the article and everything else!
by Robinjen
Mon Aug 17, 2015 11:04 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ashamed, but can't stop
Replies: 13
Views: 2655

Re: Ashamed, but can't stop

Anything sexual would happen at my place, so we've decided that it would be better to stop hanging out here and hang out somewhere else, like the park, the mall, etc. but is this a good idea?
by Robinjen
Mon Aug 17, 2015 10:47 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ashamed, but can't stop
Replies: 13
Views: 2655

Re: Ashamed, but can't stop

I would honestly like to stop entirely and have some time to really think about what I'm comfortable doing and not doing, and where my limits are even if it's in a heat of the moment situation. (I'm sorry if this isn't making any sense)
by Robinjen
Mon Aug 17, 2015 10:34 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ashamed, but can't stop
Replies: 13
Views: 2655

Re: Ashamed, but can't stop

We always ask if we are ok with it, but we might say yes due to the heat of the moment. I would honestly like to stop anything sexual, and focus on other things. I've talked to my partner and they said the same thing about wanting to stop and focus on other things in this relationship.
by Robinjen
Mon Aug 17, 2015 10:14 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ashamed, but can't stop
Replies: 13
Views: 2655

Re: Ashamed, but can't stop

I read the article, thank you for that. But I think the part were it talks about things moving too fast applies to this situation. Me and my partner want things to just slow down...way down with anything sexual. Well as for doing better, I think I could do better, as in I can make smarter desicions....
by Robinjen
Mon Aug 17, 2015 9:23 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ashamed, but can't stop
Replies: 13
Views: 2655

Re: Ashamed, but can't stop

We usually remind each other that we shouldn't be doing anything like this. But it seems we always forget somehow and it starts of with a kiss and progresses from there (I suppose "the heat of the moment") I feel guilty because I know that I'm too young for this, and that I should be focus...
by Robinjen
Sun Aug 16, 2015 11:11 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Ashamed, but can't stop
Replies: 13
Views: 2655

Ashamed, but can't stop

Hi there, i don't know if I can get help with this but.....lately I've been becoming more sexually active with my boyfriend and I'm only 15. It sounds horrible it it seems everytime it happens, afterward we both feel extremely guilty for letting it happen. We've talked about it and we said we won't ...
by Robinjen
Sat Dec 27, 2014 7:34 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual choices
Replies: 8
Views: 2886

Re: Sexual choices

Hi Edith
Thankyou for showing me the articles. They actually helped me a ton. I would like to focus on other things to this relationship :)
Better communication is a big one.
Once again thank you so much for the articles and your reply.
by Robinjen
Sat Dec 27, 2014 5:03 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual choices
Replies: 8
Views: 2886

Re: Sexual choices

Hi Heather
Well, it does make me feel very uncomfortable and causes me to have anxiety, so I do want to take it off the table for now, until I'm sure I am truly ready. I would like some help on setting my limits, with what I'm comfortable with doing and not doing.
Thankyou for your reply.
by Robinjen
Sat Dec 27, 2014 3:04 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual choices
Replies: 8
Views: 2886

Re: Sexual choices

Hi Heather
Thankyou for your reply. I'm going to tell my partner that I don't feel so comfortable doing this anymore. Hopefully I will be able to stop. Thankyou again for your reply I really do appreciate it.
by Robinjen
Sat Dec 27, 2014 9:20 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual choices
Replies: 8
Views: 2886

Re: Sexual choices

Hi Jacob No I have not. I know I should, but it's possibly not worth it. I just really want to stop doing this. Every time it does happen, I have a fear of pregnancy occurring. And I always do my best to remember that it's not possible (from what I've read from scarleteen) but I can't help it. Every...
by Robinjen
Sat Dec 27, 2014 1:25 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Sexual choices
Replies: 8
Views: 2886

Sexual choices

Hi there, so I've been having troubles with I believe my sexual choices. Me and my partner dry hump and from what I've read there's no possible chances of pregnancy. I've also talked to my mom about this and how I wanted to be more careful and responsible, and she actually helped me and talked to me...