Hi Scarleteen, I’ve been broken up with my ex bf for a month or so now. Currently I am talking to this guy, but online. We text and he calls me almost everyday after I get home from school. He flirts with me and I flirt back. But, I told him two days ago that I like him. He didn’t think I was seriou...

Hi, My boyfriend and I have decided to live together and since then we’ve decided to get pretty intimate. I am on birth control pills right now I’m just not as good as taking them since at times I take them and hour or few hours late or early. I don't miss any though. I take them everyday just few h...

Hi, I’m currently thinking of letting go of birth control pills and just stick on using condoms. I currently don’t have a source of income due to what’s going on right now and my insurance doesn’t cover the pills. Do you think it’s a good idea? What are the side effects of getting off of the pill? I...

I have couple of questions. 1.) Would taking a birth control pill (Aviane) and taking emergency contraception pill (Contingency One) at the same time affect the effectiveness of the emergency contraception pill? (I took the ECP 4 hours after intercourse) (Also, what I mean by ‘at the same time’ is t...

The communication is usually fine, when I mentioned though that I’ve been a bit anxious about him and his ex two days ago he got a bit defensive and asked me why it matters. He also got upset cause he felt like I don't trust him. But then after a short while, since I withdrew from him being upset, h...

Hi Sam, Yes it has stopped for awhile now. He promised to help himself control it and he’s been doing good with it. He’s keeping reflections about his emotions and other stuff whenever he gets upset. I’m finding it difficult to trust him with this because of what he’s done. Since he’s lied to me abo...

Hi, I need some advice. I’ve been feeling so anxious about this for awhile now. So let me give you a backstory. My boyfriend contacted his ex a while ago, around christmas to january they were talking and playing a multiplayer game behind my back. He would tell me he’s going to sleep but I caught hi...

my boyfriend recently contacted his ex to apparently apologize for making her feel awful for awhile after he broke up with her. they then continued to play a mobile multiplayer game together for awhile. he hid this from me and i only found out because i confronted him about why he has a game history...

I’ve thought about leaving him because of how he’s been acting. It’s just that I can’t get myself to. I really love him and whenever he realizes he’s wrong he always apologizes and he says he knows that his temper isn’t the best but he’s trying to change. I honestly feel dumb for not wanting to go e...

Is it okay to talk to my boyfriend’s ex girlfriend about how he was when they were together? My boyfriend and I have been fighting lately and his temper is making me scared at this point. I was thinking to maybe seek advice from her. I feel its quite ridiculous but some part of me feels like it'd be...

Is it okay to swallow the pill without drinking water after? Will that reduce/affect its efficacy?

Yes, I’m a bit concerned I might be pregnant but I’m just really concerned about whats going on. It’s the third day and I’m still bleeding. I don’t know if there’s something wrong with my health or I’m reacting negatively to the pills I’m taking. Is it possible that spotting caused by the pills last...

Just an update it switched colours again from bright red/brown earlier to pinkish red and it really isn't how much a period should be.. I’m so confused

Hey, thanks for clearing it up. Yes I’ve talked about these concerns to my boyfriend. We’ve always been using condoms for protection but just only 6 days ago we decided to try without one because I started using birth control. He’s very considerate of the things I suggest when it comes to this stuff...

When does Implantation bleeding occur after intercourse? I had sex 5 days ago and now I’m spotting, apparently implantation bleeding takes 6-12 days after sex so I’m very confused as to why I’m spotting right now. (I started birth control 20 days ago could this be just due to the hormones the pill i...

Does my period start during or after i take placebo pills?

I’m very confused now, cause I did some research and almost all websites said that I can take the pill midcycle yet I just have to keep taking the pill for 7 days and it will become effective.

Hi! So I started taking a combination birth control called Lolo tuesday (July 9th) last week even though i havent started my period yet. My previous period started on June 25th and ended on June 29th. Will the pill be effective now since I have been taking it everyday for 12 days now? I haven’t miss...

so during the first time we tried we only had condoms and no lubricant plus i wasnt that turned on and he was being careful and asking me if it hurts so yeah it’s understandable that id bleed due to the circumstances.. second time we had condoms and lube but i wasnt really turned on as much again an...

soooo i don't know why but i bleed a bit after sex, like me and my boyfriend had intercourse four times now, my first one wasn't successful cause it hurt and i bled most likely because its my first time second one was still hurting and i bled again the third time we were able to successfully do it b...

hey, it doesn't hurt as much to pee anymore.. still kinda stings a bit but not as much as last night. plus I'm still having a pinkish discharge, not red. but just a bit. i dont have the clump thing anymore either this morning.

ok so me and my boyfriend had sex today and its the first time we actually did it cause before it hurt cause i havent had sex before and now it didnt as much but after sex it hurts to pee and i’m having little bleeding like just drops of blood or so.. and i peed earlier and theres like a clump of mu...

Hey, so me and my boyfriend were just hanging out today but then we both got horny. Well we dry humped with no clothes on. i was a bit worried about pregnancy but he put a condom on the head of his penis and his penis wasnt wet at all so he told me not to worry. we weren’t tested out yet for STDs bu...

So me and my boyfriend tried to have sex for the first time (genital to genital) on like May 9th, that was my first tome before i lose my virginity, well he went halfway in but we didn’t continue because it hurt and my vagina started bleeding (kinda understandable, we also didnt have lube, also the ...

Hi! I’m interested in taking birth control, but I have some questions. Does it cause acne? Will it mess up my period? Which is the best for me? Is it possible to get it without my mom knowing? Will it be costly? I’m sorry thats a lot but i just need some information before I continue on.. If possibl...