I'm hearing that things are great when you're by yourself but as soon as a partner is added into the mix, your arousal goes downhill. As Sian said, what is it about the partner that your body is saying "no" to - their presence? The way they're stimulating you? The person themselves? If you...

Something we spoke about in a psychology class I took recently was the "sexual script" that we follow. Ie. In North America, the "sexual script" we follow is kissing, then feeling each other, then oral sex, then PIV sex. In other cultures it can be quite different. When someone v...

I just feel more badass kind of haha, just like not only am I conquering this day but I'm also "bleeding" while doing it!

I have found that I am okay with any magnitude of involvement/interest in politics as long as it's greater than 0 as I think it's important to do the bare minimum research and exercise your voting right. I am not extremely political but wouldn't mind a partner who is. As has already been said, when ...

One boundary that I've recently communicated with my partner is that when I say that I don't want to have sex, which is sometimes subtle because I'm trying not to hurt his feelings (ie. I've had a long day), he needs to respect that. I hate saying "no" to someone I love so much and I expla...

Hi avaiara, That sounds like a tricky situation for sure. Though there is no "right" answer, what you decide to do next might depend on how close you are with your friend. You refer to her as your best friend so if you are comfortable addressing this with her then that could be a possible ...

I will shave my underarms because it's convenient for me and I find I sweat more if I don't hehe. I previously bought into the "women should be hairless" mentality but I haven't been shaving my legs all winter because my partner is very supportive of me making those decisions for myself wh...

I take a moment to think about what I appreciate about my body, like how it is strong and lets me walk to see my friends or all the places I've gone with it. Then, I'll do something that makes me feel good like a bit of yoga/stretching, a walk, or a healthy snack. A positive mindset is key for me!