Thanks. That's a helpful way of looking at it for me! EDIT: Actually, though, I do have a further question. You perspective has helped me assuage my worries about the risk side, but the pleasure side (for women) is still nagging at me. If most women can't orgasm from PiV without another form of stim...

Hi all. This is a great website; I've lurked here from time-to-time for years now and it's been helpful in many ways. So, some background: I'm a 21 year old heterosexual cis-male. I'm also a virgin in all senses of the word (I have never even kissed somebody before). I was raised in a reasonably sex...