Hello, Me and my partner practice “outercourse” but if possible is that the way we do it correct? I go down on her first she does me and then we both wash our hands near enough at the same time. Also, I have what you may consider a peculiar question but if my partner was to give me oral and had my s...

Yes it does and in your second paragraph.
“Intercourse” would refer to direct genital to genital contact I assume.

And all other conditions withstanding will be the sperm being at its optimum conditions for helping to conceive?

Hello, This is not a pregnancy scare I just have a question on the terminology used for “ejaculation” and the cause of pregnancy. In the Pregnancy Panic Companion it talks in my own words: Direct contact with ejaculate there can be a pregnancy. Does this mean if I had ejaculate on my hands then I pl...