It is true to an extent. I see him and I begin questioning my own weight. I know he's unhealthy and I am very active so there is a certain number of calories I need to eat every day so I don't pass out. But I still consider not eating purposefully at times which is something I haven't done in almost...

I see what you are saying, and I understand. Though I do believe phrasing this somehow would help. I don't want to jump into this conversation with him again and feel like he isn't hearing me. But I also want to make sure I phrase everything correctly so he understands I'm saying and doing what I am...

Well, yes. I would like to discuss that. I, in theory, understand that threats and limits are different things but I feel like saying, "I need you to take care of yourself or this isn't going to work," is a bit in the threatening category.

I think I can try that. I was just worried that by saying something, I would be over-stepping. But I see what you're saying. Considering he is my partner and we are in this relationship together, requiring that of him shouldn't be as big a problem as it is in my head. I want him to get help. And I d...

Thank you for replying! That was one example of the talks we've had. I've asked him about his relationship with food and whether he's not eating because he doesn't want to or is uncomfortable with his weight. He hasn't given me an answer that makes sense. I have suspicions but I'm no psychologist, s...

I have known my boyfriend for years. Our romantic relationship ended after high school but we got back together three years later and have been in a great place since. I do believe we both needed to grow as people before being in a serious relationship. Everything emotionally and physically is fine ...