Thank you Sam, We never use the lube for fingering maybe thats the caused of the bleeding. Will try to use lube next time, thank you for the advice

Hi Scarleteen, I had problem with bleeding since afternoon, Today My bf fingered me, at first we used a vibrator, and he put it inside me, it was okay. And he proceeded to finger me afterwards, it was a bit pain when he fingered me, but later on he put the vibrator back in me so the pain is not as m...

Thank you Heather, will try to use it with ur directions

Hi, may I know what is the shelf life of a lubricant? Because in the bottle it said used within 3 months of opening, I used the water base by durex, but today I used it after open it for 4 months plus, and i got burning sensation from it. And the expired date is till 2021, is it safe to use it? And ...

Hi Scarleteen, I wanted to know is bleeding like period is common in pregnancy? Because i read somewhere that you can still get period even if you are pregnant. I got my period which can fit into 2 big pads and got flow, although this time it does not come as much as my normal period, but its defini...

Hi, I wanted to ask, how to know whether its implantation bleeding? I took ovulation kit and show that i am ovulating at day 19, or 20. And now its day 33, on day 32 i tried to finger myself and i started seeing blood. But till now its more of like a spotting and no flows of period at all. So i star...

Thank you Sian, I will consider that.

Hi Sam,
For now I have been using the condom and withdrawal method. Is cervical barrier can be added up to my combo? Cause I prefer to use more than 1 method for preventing pregnancy. And is the cervical barrier easy to buy? Thank you

Thank you so much Heather for the reply, yes i would like to talk about my options in birth control. Is there any other non hormonal birth control that i can use aside from condom? Which one is you recommend the most? Thank you

Yes, I agree with you Heather. Thats what I have been doing all the time, but for this month I did intercourse on the time of ovulation ( tell from the ovulation kit) but of course with the contraception methods that I have been using, but I felt not safe enough after I did it, so I wanted to know i...

Thank you so much Sam for the reply! The article really helpful, because I thought if someone is ovulating the effectiveness will change, but I got it know. Thank you again!

Thank you Al, i think I know what you mean by the risk. Because no matter what type of birth control as long as we had intercourse it will still had some risk of getting pregnant, is this what I can understand from it? Thank you for the explanation, Is it also means that with or without ovulation, t...

Hi Al, Thank you so much for the explanation. Yes, that makes so much sense to me. I have not tried any hormonal method, but I am scared for the risks, as I heard some will even cause nauseous and ruin the hormones. So I think I will only stick to non hormonal method. The last question I wanted to a...

Hi Scarleteen, I have some questions regarding ovulation. Because I don’t want any hormonal method of birth control, so currently I am using condom combined with withdrawal (which my partner still using condom but just ejaculate outside) and because I wanted more secure for myself, I used ovulation ...

Thank you Sam

I see, thank you Heather for the explanation. So I can assume and assure that what I have done is still consider proper use of condom regardless of the sliding up? And though after sliding up we did some intercourse then adjust back the condom? Thank you so much for always giving the best advice to ...

Hi Scarleteen, First of all, I would like to say thanks to this website, I learned a lot from here, thank you! I want to ask about the proper use of condom, bcause I had sex with my partner, but on certain position we realised that the condom tends to slip up, sometimes it can slip up to half of the...