Nip having feelings in the bud. Fwb is something I want to try out, because I’m interested in being friends with him, but I’m open to something developing. I still don’t know him that well, so idk if he’s someone I’d want to be in a relationship or not.

There’s a guy that I had met on Tinder that is interested in a fwb. He just got out of a relationship recently, and he’s giving himself some time to process his emotions, but still wants to have sex. I’m interested in him, and I find him attractive, but I’m afraid that I’m going to eventually fall f...

Thank you so much, this is all very helpful! I'll read over this and consider what might work best for me moving forward

I feel a little bit uncomfortable with the fact that my beliefs about sex stray from that of my parents. Until recently, I followed everything my parents have taught me about life. It feels kind of strange to disagree with something. How can I best cope with that?

Yes, I have talked to friends about what he did, and he isn't trying to reach out to me anymore. I made sure to be firm with him last time I talked to him and he has stopped. Talking to my friends really helped, and they made sure to let me know that this guy was very toxic.

I believe that you should have sex with someone that you have a connection with. With the second guy, I feel like I had a connection with him. He's someone I would want to be friends with. I don't want to hook up with someone once and that's it. Because then it's just sex without meaning. I agree wi...

I feel like it's a mix of both, to answer the first question. It's mostly because of how I have to hide it from my parents, but my parents also told me that sex should be with someone that I care about. Like with someone I'm in a relationship with. And I haven't done that. They also would think (par...

I also can't help but feel guilty for what I've done. The guilt won't go away.

At the same time, I also enjoyed it, and wanted to have sex with him. And I did feel ready. It was more about the time and place that I did everything that is stressing me out. Another reason I did it was also because I wanted to experience sex the way you're supposed to. As something that's actuall...

It's just because once I got in trouble, and I couldn't go to dinner with them and the family. They never had me stay home from a vacation, but that's because I didn't do anything wrong. I don't know if it was because of the strong feelings that I had and that I wanted to hook up. But I think I did ...

So yes, more about some serious consequences.

It's not that I'm afraid it will be awkward and unpleasant. It's more that I'm afraid they'll be really angry with me. Which I know they will be. I also feel like I can't tell them soon because there are things that we're supposed to do together as a family over the summer. We're supposed to travel,...

I have a question about something I did that I feel guilty about. I'm staying with my parents over the summer (taking a break from college). I hooked up with a guy at home without letting them know, while they were out of the house. I'm having a lot of internal conflict with myself. It's the fact th...