Quarantine has really cemented my love for jumpsuits. They're soo comfy but they can also look so dressy if you wear the right one with the right jewelry, makeup, etc. I found a cute black one made of jersey material that's SUPER comfy -- this has become my house outfit -- and a couple that are silk...

Hey SirenSong, Woof. I'm sorry, this is a tough one -- and just for the sake of openness, I have been in this situation before! It is hard. Sam asked some great questions. I think the is-this-a-dealbreaker-for-you one is extra important. The truth is, someone who wants to be with you so much that th...

Hey there, Not to be boring, but things that promote healthy orgasm & ejaculation are the kinds of things that generally improve health. Maintaining healthy blood circulation through exercise, eating energizing & nourishing foods, getting enough sleep, not smoking -- all of these things will...

Hey there TS_6249, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I *have* to say it: you don't have to shave that hair! If you're concerned about hurting yourself, it might be a good moment to check in -- why do you feel like you have to remove your body hair? If this is something you're down to talk about, we should explo...

Hey PinappleI, I'm sorry that you're having an experience that can be anxiety-inducing. <3 Thanks for coming to us to talk it out! First, it's worth saying that while you likely have completed the bulk of puberty, people with penises usually reach adult bodily maturity around 18 -- so your body may ...

I so hear you. Talking around, hiding, or otherwise denying your sexuality can really make you feel conflicted & frankly, like crap. I've been there. Have you read our article Becoming Out ? It's such a good intro to exactly this kind of experience. One thing that I especially love to return to ...

Hey Brianne, I'm glad you managed to cry a bit, and I hope it felt good! While there's no way to replicate the exact release you get from crying, it may be helpful to find other ways that help you channel/release your sad/frustrated/angry energies. By finding healthy ways to work through these feeli...

Hey deceptacon8199, We can definitely talk that out here. I want to start out by saying -- because I feel like you can never hear it enough -- that what happened to you is real, we believe you, and NONE of it was your fault. In my own experience, so much of the shame and guilt of survivorship can co...

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Hey SpicyLemon, I think we've all had those moments where we put something out into the ether -- a text, an Insta post, a discussion board response -- and had a mini-panic-moment immediately after because we've bared our soul a bit. I definitely know the feeling! When, how, & where you come out ...

Peeing after sex is a great additional measure to flush away any bacteria that ends up in the urethra as a result of sexual activity. It's not an absolute necessity, but it's a good idea!

Hey DesSam, First, it's important to address this: no city is safe during COVID . Whether it is pervasive in your area in this exact moment does not change the fact that it is global in its reach, rapidly spreading, and that the world is not thoroughly vaccinated against it yet -- so parties are not...

I think we've given you the best advice we have on this, so here's a mini recap: Penetrative sex alone often doesn't do it for folks with vaginas, so masturbating by penetrating yourself alone may be similarly anticlimactic. Try combining penetration with stimulating other parts of the body, such as...

Hey there kaisedinuma, Some people have trouble feeling pleasure when they touch themselves without the aid of a sex toy or partner. If fingering yourself isn't pleasurable, consider trying out some DIY Sex Toys . I also wonder why this learning process around your body & pleasure, especially as...

Hey bubbles, I think there is so much internalized shame & stigma around peeing and/or ejaculation during sex if you have a vagina. In my own experience, I sometimes (but not always) ejaculate during orgasm -- and when I do, it is also yellow and usually seems similar to or contains some urine. ...

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Hey there latestarter, This kind of discharge is totally normal. When you masturbate, the amount of vaginal discharge you experience may temporarily increase. We have a great article about normal discharge vs. possible signs of infection or illness: Honorably Discharged: A Guide to Vaginal Secretion...

Hey there, It sounds like your experience with birth control over the course of the last 3.5 years has been consistent, so I'm wondering why you are keeping such an ardent eye on whether or not you could be pregnant. Of course, any type of birth control can fail so it is worth it to keep an eye on y...

Hey y'all. I'm someone who really cherishes my sexuality (obvs, since I'm here!) and it has been really hard sometimes to navigate how the pandemic has affected my sex drive. I'm locked inside, away from social/flirty situations; I'm wearing mostly sweatpants so I'm not super feeling myself (even th...

Hey BuddyBoi21, First -- I'm sorry for your loss. Facing tough questions like this is hard, even if you don't miss the person who has passed. You are certainly not the only person who has ever felt this way after a close relative died. Healing from toxic relationships with a deceased family member l...

Hey LovePineapples, It sounds like, in addition to working on how you treat your partner, you need to heal & find some forgiveness for yourself and your healing process. If you're suffering from these trust issues, the best way to heal your relationship with him (or any romantic partner) is goin...

Hi Susan, I just want to reiterate that it's not weird at all to be feeling loneliness under these circumstances, despite talking to him every day. Talking to folks while knowing that you can't share physical space can be a very lonely feeling, indeed. I agree with Sofi that finding distanced "...

Hey idk anymore, My best suggestions always revolve around finding communities of mutual interest. During a pandemic, that means things like finding subreddits, message boards, websites, etc. where you can meet people you have something in common with. In fact, we have a subreddit where you could po...

Hey space egg, These are definitely not silly questions! To reiterate what Heather said earlier, washing your hands, using the same towel to dry, etc. are risk-free activities because sperm will not hang around on a towel waiting for an egg, if that makes sense. None of these things that you've ment...

Hey Digdawg,

I think taking it slow is a great idea. Assessing how you feel along the way could help you to find ways to cope with any pregnancy-related anxiety. We're always here if you want to talk through it further.