To be clear these messages were not meant to make any one else to feel discouraged or ashamed of their orientation. I’m sorry if this rubbed off that way. I was just scared of my mind suddenly telling me something different from what I always known for 13 years. Thank you to all the staff members fo...

Thank you for the advice! I’ll play some games and try to avoid the subject. And I just would like to say I have nothing against the lgbtq+ community. I just never thought I would be a part of it. In fact some of my closest friends are a part of the community. I am just afraid that I am in denial ab...

Okay thank you. The first time I read about this type of ocd I brought it up to my therapist and she said it isn’t real. A part of me thinks it’s is real and I think have it.(pretty much all my family has different types of ocd) next time I see her I will ask her on how to help overcome these though...

My next appointment she said will be dwelling into the spectrum of sexual fluidity and orientations itself. But besides that she has not given me any advice to deal with these thoughts. I probably spend hours online reading other folks coming out stories and I also read about something called “hocd”...

First of all thank you for all the help. And my therapist told me that I need to tune the negative thoughts out of my head. And told be that because I sometimes look at girls doesn’t mean I’m not straight. One last question. Do bi people always have a sense that they are bi? Because I read stories o...

Yeah that does make sense. I have a therapist I see two times a week. My mother is extremely understanding and always try’s to help me. I have told both about I been going through and my mother said she would still accept me if I was bi or lesbian but her approval made me feel worse. I want to make ...

I feel a part of it is looking at every girl is to see if i find them attractive I find the the concept of being in a same gendered relationship undesirable. And that’s why I am afraid of developing a crush on a girl. I don’t want my feelings to change. I am currently scared of being in a relationsh...

Regarding your first question I don’t really know I feel very happy when he messages me and he makes me smile but my overwhelming fear of me not loving a boy I feel is getting in the way of that. We decided to dating because he told me he liked me. At the time i didn’t know what a crush really was. ...

I haven’t been with him for a long time about a few days. But all I can focus on is “what if I don’t want to be in a relationship with a boy”? I have known for him two years. But our relationship is online. I’ve never had any sorts of feelings for another girl. But sill I am scared all day of my ori...

I’ve already messaged but I need more help. I am a 13 year old girl. I have a boyfriend but I’m terrified that I won’t satisfied in a relationship with him.also I’m afraid that I don’t really like him. I’ve been really scared of getting into a relationship but I did anyway. I’m am terrified of turni...