I'm pretty stressed about college and and general life stuff. I don't know what it means to be "ready" for penetration. I feel like as a 21 year old women this shouldn't be an issue. I just want to have a normal sex life with my boyfriend.

I'm a CisF who has only been penetrated by my doctor during my pap smear, which was terrible. I have never even used a tampon. This never bothered me until recently when I started my first sexual relationship. We currently are having a great time just doing oral on each other (He has had a lot more ...