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by Tomdelonge
Tue Oct 15, 2019 10:00 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex
Replies: 11
Views: 3065

Re: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex

First things first sam, thank you so much for finding the time to read my messages and trying to help me, it really means a lot and it helps me understand lot of things about sex. Yes, the fact that it's her first time with me soften things up, never thought of it that way. But, one of my other prob...
by Tomdelonge
Tue Oct 15, 2019 4:15 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex
Replies: 11
Views: 3065

Re: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex

I start to get scared when things start to get serious. When we've been flirting all night and it comes the time to get her in the car or to my place. I start doubting if I'm able to meet my partner's expectations, or if I'm able to keep an erection, or what would happen If I do something awkward......
by Tomdelonge
Mon Oct 14, 2019 8:51 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex
Replies: 11
Views: 3065

Re: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex

I feel desire only for certain girls (up till now only 3 girls really turned me on) but when things start to build up I get scared and try to escape the situation... to answer your second question, it is because every friend I have they got some partner to fuck with, and I constantly feel inferior t...
by Tomdelonge
Sun Oct 13, 2019 11:37 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex
Replies: 11
Views: 3065

Re: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex

Hey, sorry for the delay. Yes those articles helped a lot, but I still struggle with that fear... and one of my major problems is that I never feel like having sex. I've been without sex for too long now, I don't even feel a man... I find myself thinking about what the girl I could have sex would th...
by Tomdelonge
Tue Oct 08, 2019 6:49 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex
Replies: 11
Views: 3065

Re: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex

I mean I don't know what's next, I don't know what man should do to bring her to bed. Is it okay to ask her to fuck? Then what if things gets so awkward we both get bored and one of us leave? Thing is that I don't feel like sex is for me... I see it like something I can't be part of, something exter...
by Tomdelonge
Mon Oct 07, 2019 12:40 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex
Replies: 11
Views: 3065

I'm a man and i'm afraid of having sex

Hi, I'm 23 years old. I had a relationship with my ex for 4 years, but broke up because she didn't turn me on (we had sex only 3 times...). And now after a year, I still can't get a girl to fuck with me. I can talk to girls, I make them laugh, they want me to make the first move, but I can't, i can'...