As long as you don't drop it like a bomb on her it should be fine. Girls like to talk about this stuff too, and we're interested in being open so we know where we stand and where things are going (or not going). Just chat casually about the kisses you've had and ease into the other stuff naturally. ...

I have a gal pal who I can talk about ANYTHING with and it's awesome. We've known each other since we were 8 so we know what makes each other tick. I can't really discuss much with my family except an uncle who is surprisingly regular and open. We have an unusually grounded way of relating and I can...

I like a lot of hands-on affection. I'm not talking about always getting groped, I just mean lots of hugging, touching, playing with hair, pats on the back or shoulders, etc. I think it's really sweet and feels personal without being too much or not enough.

Honesty is always the best policy. There's no shame to coming clean. you can joke with her about it and I'm sure she'll understand, especially if she gets her money back.