things that bring my pleasure in life is probably when someone shows that hey care about me and loves me. and i usually do follow these things
and its bothering me because i feel like no one my age has these types of problems as it comes so natural to them and for me its like its very hard.

Yes thats exactly what i'm saying! i'm really trying not to let his affect me but i can't help it and i don't know why...it's just really bothering me

Also the thing that confuses me the most is why I used to feel sexually aroused ALL the time when i was younger from the simplest things and now it has all changed ! thats what made me look into this

Yes i know exactly what you mean and i completely understand. Honestly i just wanna make sure i'm healthy because a healthy reproductive system should have the ability to be aroused from appropriate stimuli and if that not happening (especially at my age) it worries me you know! so i know what i;m s...

Yes you're right this pressure is really taking control of my feelings and maybe thats the problem! i will do the things you have suggested. The thing is i really do wanna have sex in the future but i wanna enjoy it! i don't wanna do it just to please my husband for example.

well yeah i guess so, since it doesnt sexually turn me on

Yes i really do! it feels good maybe because i am emotionally attracted to him but i never feel sexually turned on by these acts. Yes kissing, touching my beasts and some parts of my body etc.

Can I check in with you and ask why you're in a sexual relationship with someone when it sounds like those are not feelings you have ever had with them? In other words, one thing I hear in all this is that you have not experienced any kind of sexual desire for this person, ever. If so, can you fill...

Hi SelenaMenta, welcome to Scarleteen. Have you talked to a doctor about this at all? And, have you talked to your doctor/have they talked to you at all about whether your medication could be affecting your libido? Also, here are a few questions to consider, and if you share your answers we may be ...

hey i'm an 18 year old female and I'm a virgin. I'm wondering if i have what is called a sexual arousal disorder.. as nothing sexually arouses me...not even stimulation. I never feel anything when my boyfriend touches me either and YES i've tried everything! i just really don't wanna have sex until ...