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by sky
Mon Nov 11, 2019 8:35 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

I’m calmer now and I hope I can speak the things I want to with it making sense. I want to be able to talk to people about this but I just know that I’m going to be belittled and hated, I want to be able to talk my confusions out to someone I love but they don’t understand Another reason I’m not sur...
by sky
Mon Nov 11, 2019 3:06 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Well like I do but I’ve disappointed enough people being lesbian. I don’t wanna disappoint them anymore :(
by sky
Mon Nov 11, 2019 2:37 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

I don’t know if I want to go to therapy because then it makes it real and I don’t want it to be real. I’m just accepting that I’m a lesbian. Thank you, this isn’t the first time you’ve helped me and you’re absolutely incredible heather and you help me realize not everyone sucks and that I’m okay as ...
by sky
Mon Nov 11, 2019 1:31 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Well I just don’t know. Like I don’t know how to like handle life. (Not a suicidal thing) I just am not good at life
by sky
Mon Nov 11, 2019 1:23 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Thank you. This just caused me a bad panic attack just overthinking it all. But I need to just get over it! I need to just live. I’m sorry I asked.
by sky
Mon Nov 11, 2019 11:54 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Thanks Heather. Is it okay if I just don’t know? Like I feel like I just want to be masculine so I feel okay dating girls but I also want to be a girl like 98% of the time. If that makes sense. Like can I just exist or do I have to label it? I don’t really understand it, meaning I don’t understand m...
by sky
Sun Nov 10, 2019 7:34 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Thank you.

And yes that’s something I would be interested in looking at :) I need to learn how to accept myself
by sky
Sat Nov 09, 2019 8:51 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m so confused about everything
Replies: 55
Views: 13070

Re: I’m so confused about everything

Hi everyone it’s me again (I changed my name because I’m nervous someone in my real life will see me as Mel and know it’s me since that’s my nickname, idk just an anxiety thing) anyways, I have been re reading these because I need a reminder and it helps me feel understood. I want to say I’m so sorr...
by sky
Sat Nov 09, 2019 3:10 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Someone at work just called me fat and then everyone wonders why I can’t accept myself!
by sky
Sat Nov 09, 2019 12:45 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

I’m just so sad and angry about a lot in my life and I want to just tell her to F off and not talk to me anymore because all she does is ruin me. I’m old enough to cut her out but I just feel mean for it.
by sky
Sat Nov 09, 2019 11:41 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

I did tell them! And I said to not tell anyone else and they didn’t really say anything about it. But I mean I wasn’t really expecting it. I live with my grandma who is incredibly religious and judgemental and I know if I tell my mom my grandma will know and then I won’t feel comfortable living ther...
by sky
Sat Nov 09, 2019 11:03 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Well I want to tell my mom. But my older sibling is trans and is going from girl to boy and my mom is having a hard time with it and being kind of rude. I told a few friends because I’ve known since I was 18 and then I found out the terming for it 4 years later and felt soothed? But I don’t know how...
by sky
Sat Nov 09, 2019 10:21 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Thank you ❤️
I haven’t told anyone really that I’m gender fluid I just like do what I want to do and hope no one asks but it’s still scary
by sky
Sat Nov 09, 2019 9:26 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Well like sometimes I will wear men’s clothing but still have my hair down and wear makeup? But my name is Melissa but I like to go by Mel because it’s like gender neutral and it makes me feel better about myself?? Does this make sense or am I just confused and weird
by sky
Sat Nov 09, 2019 9:05 am
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

Yes!! That’s why I’m confused. I’ve always felt I can like morph into man or woman but I’m a girl and I like that but when I first came out I almost buzzed my hair because I want to really take care of my girlfriend when I get one and I thought I had to be a “boy” but like I like masculine and femin...
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 10:22 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Re: Gender roles?

I don’t know how to delete this i wish I could don’t get mad at me for asking a lot. I know I suck but you all are so smart and I actually understand what you all mean. I’m so sorry :(
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 6:33 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Gender roles?
Replies: 40
Views: 11379

Gender roles?

As a lesbian who is new to it is there like gender rules? I don’t even really understand when people ask that?
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 5:39 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m anxious
Replies: 7
Views: 2733

Re: I’m anxious

And absolutely made me feel more comfortable with me and my sexuality
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 5:39 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m anxious
Replies: 7
Views: 2733

Re: I’m anxious

Thank you so much. You all have literally changed my outlook on life :)
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 5:27 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m anxious
Replies: 7
Views: 2733

Re: I’m anxious

And yes I always start with cleaning my hands :)
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 5:26 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m anxious
Replies: 7
Views: 2733

Re: I’m anxious

So just to clarify, if I touch myself and then touch my lips and then touch myself it’s okay? I feel so crappy saying this to you.

I’ve been trying to forget about it all day but it keeps coming up lol
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 5:15 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m anxious
Replies: 7
Views: 2733

I’m anxious

So I was idk what you would call it but I was playing with my clit and then I switched positions and I forgot which hand I was using but then I started touching my lip to reach climax and I think I was using the original hand to touch my lips and then I freaked out when I realized and didn’t do it a...
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 4:34 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m so confused about everything
Replies: 55
Views: 13070

Re: I’m so confused about everything

It usually goes away after a day. Thank you. I didn’t know that about the tense thing.

You all are incredible
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 3:17 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m so confused about everything
Replies: 55
Views: 13070

Re: I’m so confused about everything

Heather, you are absolutely incredible!! No it’s okay don’t worry at all :) Every girl I’ve talked too doesn’t have sex with them and never has, so why would they just for me? Thank you so much. So I’ve mentioned it before but all I do is like just play with my clit and that’s what gets me off, it’s...
by sky
Fri Nov 08, 2019 12:28 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: I’m so confused about everything
Replies: 55
Views: 13070

Re: I’m so confused about everything

I have another question. Can you link me to something for safe lesbian sex? Is there even reason to use gloves and dams if the person is clean?