Heather I sent you an email regarding some LGBTQ therapy I think you’re talking about?

Okay. Accepting that I like girls, get me out of comphet. Without meeting people right now, I’m not comfortable with it. Going to a bar and just being around them, maybe I can do but not right now. So don’t suggest meeting people until I feel i am ready, please. That’s where I would like to start, g...

What exactly is comphet? I do want to work on it, I do I just always go to sex, every time and it overwhelms me so so deeply. We can talk about things but no matter what we talk about I will think about how I have to put my mouth on a vagina and I’m just so afraid to do that. I don’t know how to not...

I’m just feeling a lot of pressure. I’m feeling pressure from myself and society to have sex, with a man. I’m feeling pressure from you all here to meet queer people. I’m feeling pressure from you all here to not be with a man. I’m feeling pressure from my therapist to do this trauma therapy. Im jus...

I really don’t feel like I belong there and politely ask if you all can stop asking me about that.

I’ve glanced, and I feel like I’ve said it so many times that I’m just not wanting to right now. I don’t belong there and I just don’t want to right now. You all keep suggesting it but haven’t told me what to talk about or what to do or how do I dress, like no one can tell me anything about it and i...

I like this girl, and I’m wanting to stop talking to her even though we haven’t made any plans for a date, or even talked if we want to be in a relationship. I have convinced myself girls having sex with girls is boring and I’m going to be unsatisfied by it. I could use more friends so I’m continuin...

Okay, I’ll change it, idk what to put but I’ll work on it. This is all really scary and idk how people do this, I really don’t understand why people choose to do this and I wanna not want someone. I don’t wanna do this. It’s so scary, I really don’t want to hurt someone or get hurt myself, which is ...

I don’t really want to do this I don’t think. I do want to find my person but I really hate having to put myself out there so intensely, I don’t know anything deep about me so how would I post it and what I do know, it’s like personal you know? Something I would tell the person I’m talking to not ju...

I just want to say something, I feel like if something is so scary and makes me feel so uncomfortable, it can’t be good for me right? Like dating makes me so scared and like being intimate with girls or anyone really, makes me very uncomfortable to think about. When I’m in the situations of being in...

I didn’t realize that it was friends only lol I’m gonna change it to relationship as well.

What’s the thoughts? I’m silly and have no chance, I know I know..

I completely understand that but even manual or oral, I don’t want anything to do with a penis is my point I’m trying to make. I have a curiosity but I don’t want anything to do with them.

I don’t know, it’s all overwhelming to me.

Just adding that that wasn’t meant as me trying to argue I just want to be clear that I may have internalized homophobia but no one can say I’m transphobic. That’s something I have never been or will ever stand for. If it ever came off that I had insinuated that, it was NEVER the intention.

In this most recent post I said real penis. Meaning a penis attached to a body, not a plastic one, like a toy. And in the past I said i don’t like cis men. I never said in here that only cis men have penis, I said I don’t like cis men.

It just really feels disrespectful for me to be in lesbian spaces. I have never been with one and I feel curious about a real penis still. I feel as though I am intruding on their safe spaces. I also feel really super inferior with my age and lack of experience. I don’t know how to even engage in co...

I don’t want to be with queer women because I don’t think I’m a valuable one. I don’t know who I am or what i like so I don’t know anything about me to become more myself. I have zero sense of self besides of some bands I love and I enjoy concerts and I like to watch tv and I love the rain but like ...

I fear I will never understand what you all are saying to me fully and that I’ll be going back and forth forever. That I’ll always be lonely and not know love or how sex feels or a healthy relationship or anything. I feel I just don’t know how to understand and that I don’t know how to communicate a...

I also do wanna note that while I mostly get what you are all saying. I don’t think that yall understand how deeply lonely I am. It’s like I get I need to care for myself but I also don’t think anyone understands this empty void I have. I would date like anyone if I had the opportunity just so I cou...

Hinge, bumble, her. I was on okcupid before, plenty of fish and tinder.

My profiles are all different some just say hopeless romantic in my bio and filled out some random things about me, it just depends. Some of them I’m not very active on like bumble and I have it set to men still.

See but you say I’m not taking the steps or whatever to get there but I am, I try to talk to people, I’m on dating sites. Yeah I don’t go to lesbian bars because I’m just entirely uncomfortable being around that many lesbians when I’m just a dumb lesbian. So like yeah starting where I am, I’m alone ...

I mean like yeah it makes sense but it also doesn’t. Like all I wanna do is have some sex, idk why it’s such a big deal in my head and then made it a big deal here and now I feel everyone’s just annoyed and like all I wanted was to have sex. That’s all I wanted and idk why it turned into all of this...

I like to do face masks, I also love to lay down and listen to music, I recently started to read again and reading outside now that it’s cooling down is such a wonderful experience, sometimes even just showering is such a nice moment like washing my hair feels so good sometimes.

Yes we can tackle it together, I am still confused. Like I don’t think you understand how low my options are and like i genuinely don’t know what to do and then it’s like yeah I meet someone and we have a few date ls and we do have sex, I don’t know what to do and it’s so so so overwhelming like I d...

Hi. So i understand everything you have said but there’s a few points. No one wants to talk to me on these apps. I have every app imaginable and I talk maybe to 1 person every two months. So you know having conversations to know if I wanna go on a date is damn near impossible. Also to add in that, t...

Well I do wanna do that too, and also be held. So I’m not just an awful person using someone, you know?