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by lovelylavender
Thu Jul 22, 2021 2:43 am
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Best Friend Drama
Replies: 1
Views: 2960

Best Friend Drama

I am conflicted on how to proceed with my friendship with my best friend. About a month ago a girl who I was somewhat friends with pulled my best friend aside and essentially started shit about me as well as tried to get him to join. The girl told him not to tell me but of course as my best friend h...
by lovelylavender
Sat Nov 07, 2020 5:17 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Having trouble orgasming
Replies: 3
Views: 2561

Re: Having trouble orgasming

It has always been like that sadly. Sometimes I am not super turned-on and engaged but I have tried when being very turned-on and into it and it was still the same for me.
by lovelylavender
Sat Nov 07, 2020 1:04 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Having trouble orgasming
Replies: 3
Views: 2561

Having trouble orgasming

I have been having a hard time orgasming and even just continuing to pleasure myself when masturbating. When masturbating I don't use penetration and I just grind instead but when doing that at some point not long after starting the pleasure goes away. I wait a little and try again and it feels good...
by lovelylavender
Mon May 25, 2020 12:55 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Masturbation
Replies: 1
Views: 2886

Masturbation

Now of days I masturbate by grinding against something as I am too afraid to masturbate with penetration and just don't want to do that. While it is satisfying I still have trouble orgasming and I typically can only go a few seconds before the pleasure goes away and then I have to wait for a few sec...
by lovelylavender
Thu Mar 19, 2020 4:40 pm
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: Sexuality
Replies: 1
Views: 2421

Sexuality

For a while I've considered myself as bisexual. Until recently I've never had a problem with it. Now as time has been going by I'm not sure I like boys. I've never been in a relationship with either genders but I don't know if that really matters or not. In general I don't know how to figure out my ...
by lovelylavender
Tue Nov 26, 2019 4:14 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Coming Out
Replies: 3
Views: 5806

Re: Coming Out

I read the article and it helped me think more on why I want to come out and what I might want to say. My mom does have some common misconceptions with sexual orientation. She doesn't honestly know much about it but she does support it. Both my parents raised me and my brother to not judge people be...
by lovelylavender
Tue Nov 26, 2019 4:02 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Masturbation
Replies: 5
Views: 3728

Re: Masturbation

Thank you so much for the information and advice. I will definitely have to try and listen more to my body and see what it's reactions are instead of just going based off what I think might be right or just worrying. This was very helpful
by lovelylavender
Mon Nov 25, 2019 11:36 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Coming Out
Replies: 3
Views: 5806

Coming Out

I am bisexual and I'm currently out to only two people. My cousin who is also bisexual, and my friend who is also bisexual. I want to come out to my parents but I'm not really sure when is a good time. My mom believes that kids my age (14) don't really know much about what we feel and I won't know u...
by lovelylavender
Mon Nov 25, 2019 11:17 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Masturbation
Replies: 5
Views: 3728

Re: Masturbation

I think on what scares me is somewhere deep down I'm afraid it will hurt, though I know if done properly it won't hurt I'm scared I won't do it properly. I also think just the feelings feels weird to me and it's a foreign feeling that makes me. It's a unknown feeling and it isn't something I'm used ...
by lovelylavender
Fri Nov 22, 2019 3:05 pm
Forum: Ask Us!
Topic: Masturbation
Replies: 5
Views: 3728

Masturbation

Hello, I am a 14 years old and I'm honestly scared to masturbate. It's something I want to do and I get the need to do it often, however, when I try I always get scared. I will get to a point and then I will feel something and I stop. I just stop all together and I give up. There is just something t...