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by perplexedpeach
Mon Jan 27, 2020 9:26 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...
Replies: 11
Views: 5673

Re: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...

Sorry, I totally forgot to reply!! I think I could try it. Honestly, I'm just ashamed of it being a thing that I have such an issue with. I get that people have body confidence and self-esteem issues all the time, and in fact it's one of the areas my psyc happens to specialise in. But still, I'm def...
by perplexedpeach
Fri Dec 13, 2019 9:10 pm
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...
Replies: 11
Views: 5673

Re: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...

I definitely think that article touches on a couple of things. It's tricky because I consider myself very self confident but also quite lacking in confidence at the same time, just in different ways - I'm very confident in who I am as a person, I know that I'm a good person and I'm smart and I've re...
by perplexedpeach
Fri Dec 06, 2019 5:55 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...
Replies: 11
Views: 5673

Re: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...

Thanks for that link. I’ll have a look. I might have a browse around the message boards etc for some other related stuff. I don’t think I have the courage to bring this all up with my therapist just yet (I’ll be honest, I don’t see myself doing it at all... :|) but I’ll try to work myself up to it. ...
by perplexedpeach
Fri Nov 29, 2019 6:10 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...
Replies: 11
Views: 5673

Re: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...

Hmmm that’s an interesting point. I guess I am struggled and have struggled for a while with self confidence. I’ve overcome that in regards to who I am as a person and am now very happy with myself, but I’m still jumping over hurdles with my body confidence. It’s not constantly on my mind but I gues...
by perplexedpeach
Wed Nov 27, 2019 12:58 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...
Replies: 11
Views: 5673

Re: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...

Thanks for the reply :) Yeah, usually as soon as I go to start in almost any way, often I just dont feel turned on anymore. Even if I continue to read etc, it doesn't seem to come back unless I wait a while. Sometimes it doesnt go away, but it certainly doesnt increase in intensity/feeling. I guess ...
by perplexedpeach
Tue Nov 26, 2019 4:50 am
Forum: Got Questions? Get Answers.
Topic: i need help
Replies: 2
Views: 1753

Re: i need help

Hey there, I don't know how much I can say really, because I've never been in a relationship myself (not for lack of trying haha). But what I can say is that your feelings are never invalid, even if they're brought on or worsened by depression. I am on antidepressants currently and for the majority ...
by perplexedpeach
Tue Nov 26, 2019 4:34 am
Forum: Sex & Sexuality
Topic: Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...
Replies: 11
Views: 5673

Struggling to get anywhere by masturbating...

Hello! Thank you for taking the time to read my post, even though it probably seems like a very common issue... And to some extent, it is. Problem is, I still can't work out what to try next, so I figured I might as well give this a shot. So, I'm a hetero cis-female 21yr old, I'm a virgin (in every ...