Long time no see... this is embarrassing to talk about but I feel concerned/embarrassed and not sure who else to talk to right now We never planned a specific time or anything, but there have been a few times my boyfriend and I have tried to have sex. He'd get the condom on and we'll have some fun l...

I have yet to get a full examination just out of fear/anxiety and how invasive it is, but I know it's something that needs to be done eventually so I will consider it more for the near future after talking to my doctor

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Yes, I know that I can be referred to a trans friendly obgyn by at least two people The bleeding after orgasm doesn't cause me to feel any pain, I should specify, it's just really concerning to me. There is slight cramping after but that is it and not like a typical period pain I'm in the process of...

Yes, my doctor works with many trans people and is good to me. By "this" I just mean bleeding, periods, cycles, etc. I know that while testosterone on its own cannot completely rule out pregnancy, for most people on it, they stop experiencing all these things within 6 months to a year. At ...

Hi, I'm a stealth trans man who has been on testosterone for about two and a half years, and depo for almost two years. I was put on depo because my reproductive area was getting worse and more painful instead of shutting down like the testosterone is supposed to make it do, and depo is (from what I...

Late response, but for me at first briefs (most my underwear is from american eagle by the way, if that helps) felt super roomy at first, but i gradually got used to it and now when underwear is tighter/a pair i get is a bit small, it feels so tight? i think you just sort of get used to it. i kind o...

you could think of a specific sexual act you enjoy as well as whatever roles you think might be fun to act out, then write them down/think about them. ie if you enjoy the ideas of giving oral as an example, or something else, you can make it the focus or start of a scenario in writing or in your head

i think this is what it is but the article is confusing and i know wikipedia is not the most reliable http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Leukorrhea in one part it says it's not abnormal but another says to get checked out? is it possible that the sole reason for this is estrogen imbalance like it sugges...

thanks for your help, i'm feeling a little better now and get anxious very easily so this helps a lot.. as for healthcare and stuff my therapist has recommendations for me when i'm ready for that

i take testosterone injections and depo injections, and that's it. as for any kind of physical sex exam i haven't had one. i know i will have to eventually but i'm not ready to undergo that yet

normally when i have had an orgasm that produces color it has been white. i usually see it on my underwear because i use it as a barrier between my genitals and my hand because i don't like how it feels directly on my fingers. so after i did today i saw on my underwear it was a solid color with a sl...

it's not really physical, and i'm in a relationship while not being sexually active daily, but one thing i do is write small stories. i don't share them with anyone/public though sometimes i might send a little to my boyfriend for fun ideas to think about. it's not really the same, and maybe not you...

are you looking for diverse literature? sara farizan has written two great books about persian lesbian teenagers. robin talley has an amazing book about a black girl and a white girl falling in love in high school during the 1960s. lies my girlfriend told me by julie anne peters is a sweet love stor...

i've seen before on some trans blogs that wearing one often/daily does give you a chance of becoming flatter/saggier. to avoid this people suggest not wearing one more than a couple times a week. from my own experience, between HRT and binding, i did slightly shrink as well as flatten. when i began ...

this has been driving me crazy at how flip-floppy and confused i am. up until recently i have never experienced much severe bottom dysphoria aside from how my reproductive organs work. i enjoy fingering and the idea of front hole penetration. however, after time alone with my boyfriend not too long ...

it's really hard to decipher when someone truly cares and gives you true affection or not. with my ex, i thought he cared for me in many ways he didn't but i didn't realize it until i got out of the relationship and was also pressured into sexual acts after the first few months.. while it can be dif...

is it her that brings up trans topics? others? yourself? if it's her that brings it up, i feel as though her words are unnecessary and rude. if it's not her that brings it up, it's possible that she might want to shy away from a trans spotlight/trans topics. when you say she does not identify as tra...

have you heard of asexuality? it sounds like you may be asexual on some level, if sex isn't something you're that interested in, but also physically attracted to guys, but that's your own label to determine if it feels like it fits you.

Hey, I'm not looking for medical info or suggestions necessarily, as I've brought these things up with my doctor and therapist. More than anything, I'm looking to see if anyone here may have ever heard of anything like this, because even my doctor isn't sure entirely how to ease the issue because it...

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Hi, I wanted to make a topic in the gender section of the forum but there's no New Topic button there? I went to FAQ and it didn't say anything about any kind of restriction, and the discussion I wanted to have I want to have with anyone that may be able to know what's up with the subject. Is there ...