In regards to T I do feel able to say no. I think my fears of disappointing him come from the fact I have had a little while to get in my head about it, to overthink it and to panic. I am happy with my plan. A bit of me still does what to say yes but I think given my conflicting feelings it is the b...

Thanks for all the advice. I don’t think T would react angrily and i also think he would respect my decision. My fear is more around disappointing him or upsetting him and that is something that I worry a lot about in everything I do not just concerning him. So, I think I will talk to him and just b...

Thanks for the advise it has been really helpful I think if I wasn’t ill and this wasn’t potentially affecting my only friend group I would talk my through my concerns about his feelings with T and if he was agreeable I would slowly go for it. However I am ill so I think I have come to the conclusio...

Hi Slight change of circumstances since my previous post, I ended up discussing this with my mum because I am terrible at keeping secrets. Her immediate reaction was no but upon further discussion her main problems with it were that she feels it is a stupid risk to take as it could ruin the very few...

Hi I am not really sure how to explain this, so I apologise if this is a bit all over the place. The main question I have is, is it a bad thing if your first sexual experiences and losing your virginity are with a friend with benefits instead of a romantic partner? Some of the context is that I have...