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by AphroditeLoves
Sun Jan 12, 2020 9:19 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: I blame myself but, like, it makes sense/forgiving pt. 2
Replies: 4
Views: 3528

Re: I blame myself but, like, it makes sense/forgiving pt. 2

To answer the first question, I have to say my relationship with him had taken a downfall since he said that he was sorry about that, though that could also be the fact that I also came out as trans on literally the same day and he's a transphobic piece of shit. And he's also in general conservative...
by AphroditeLoves
Thu Jan 09, 2020 10:00 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: I blame myself but, like, it makes sense/forgiving pt. 2
Replies: 4
Views: 3528

I blame myself but, like, it makes sense/forgiving pt. 2

Okay, so I made a post a while ago about forgiving your abuser. Unfortunately, I made the post just before the Christmas break when staff wouldn't be available. There were some things said that were said in the replies that should probably be addressed, but I felt it would be more appropriate to mak...
by AphroditeLoves
Sun Dec 22, 2019 2:23 pm
Forum: Abuse & Assault
Topic: Forgiving a previous 'abuser': is it, like, allowed?
Replies: 2
Views: 2916

Forgiving a previous 'abuser': is it, like, allowed?

So this might be a weird question to ask, and to some people the answer may be obvious, but I'm just really conflicted about it. Spending time on CSA tumblr does not help, there's only Hello Kitty with red text arial vents. Getting right into it, I completely separate my brother from the person who ...
by AphroditeLoves
Thu Dec 19, 2019 8:48 pm
Forum: Relationships
Topic: Constantly checking in for consent: sweet or annoying?
Replies: 2
Views: 2025

Constantly checking in for consent: sweet or annoying?

CW: mentions of past sexual assaults/abuse/r•pe, kink. Also, he/him please! I'm gonna start by saying I'm a complete virgin, if you don't count rape as the stealing of one's v card. I feel the need to tell y'all this because I am speaking from the perspective of someone with zero experience and I'd ...