Okay, yeah with the boundaries that makes sense, there's other ones that need to be places as well that I'm kind of feeling the whole group wants brought up. The three topics they really like are being trans, suicide and sex - and not everyone wants to talk about that all the time, especially when w...

I would personally give anything to not be trans, but like that's not possible. I don't really care about other peoples reactions to me being trans, it doesn't really matter, but I don't want to be treated different because of it. I just want to be able to be a normal guy. It's kind of hard to expla...

I think it's important there's a little backstory so this all doesn't come off as rude so here we go. I've known I was at least different since I was pretty young and was always teased for it or treated differently, or just downright told off for it. In 5th grade I went to my teacher in tears asking...

I promise I’m trying really hard... it’s just not easy...but I AM still trying...so thank you. <3 I still want to be the next Fox Mulder, lol... so I’m going to keep trying so I can at least do that. Obviously the show is not real life it’s just fun and a running joke for me in my family. I have fee...

I ended up emailing my principal and I’m going to try to meet with him, hopefully he can help me out a little bit with the stalker situation. And then I see my counsellor tomorrow and she has her therapy dog in today which is great. It’s nice having her believe me, even if she can’t do much, having ...

As far as buying them: Where I live they actually often have them in drug stores along with the condom, sadly had to learn that the hard way when I was a little younger and decided to ask my mom what I had picked out was, I got more than I bargained for with that conversation. Rexal has quite a few ...

I don’t really know what I’ll do, I don’t remember a set date it started more just the general timeframe. I’ll probably just let my friends know and make sure I have an appointment with my counsellor and therapist, but honestly, because it’s continuing, I think it’ll just be like any other day. I do...

Thanks Sam, I got an update from the police on my case this morning, they may not need a production order to press charges because the person has been involved in other criminal activities. Found out though, because of the way the law works, I may not ever be able to find out who this person is poss...

Thank you, I just feel like the deadline is so soon it would completely wreck her project and that would be a pretty big deal... I’m planning to ask her to send me a copy before the deadline so I can be sure I’m at least somewhat okay. I hear you saying it’s okay if I can’t handle that, but with a b...

So, completely forgot for my school, as part of our International Baccalaureate Middle Years Program (IB MYP) every student is required to complete what's called a personal project, something we are passionate about. For me, this was forensics (I want to go into that field when I'm older, and have b...

Okay thank you very much, I'll keep an eye on both this thread (In case anything update or answers are posted here) and then the volunteer page thing. (Application piece)

I hope it's okay that I chime in here, Firstly I want to say how sorry I am that happened to you. With this piece that you mentioned "it takes a really really long time for me to actually start properly feeling it. I take at least twice as long as he does from start to finish" I want to sa...

Oh yeah, I meant to ask, if I'm looking to possibly volunteer at Scarleteen, I've been following this site since about early November and finally chose to make an account at the beginning of January, where it then took me multiple weeks to choose to make. Stalkers aren't fun and I'm hoping they don'...

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I'm not sure if you just meant conservative, batshit old men in general by mentioning Doug Ford (Just because he's Ontario), I'm in Alberta and so we have Jason Kenny (just as bad though, he's just new and hasn't gotten a whole lot of opportunity.) WEXIT is a thing here though, and that's just insan...

Yeah, copper is the metal I'm most allergic to, and so it'll definitely be a concern I bring up with the doctor. I know what happens with contact on my exterior, don't really want to find out what happens if it's put inside me. This is definitely the piece she's most concerned for "That means w...

Okay thank you, I'm curious, what would be the effect of putting more estrogen into my system, I mean obviously it causes the secendary sex characteristics, but what would putting more of that in my system do? Would it make my body look increasingly feminine? Is there a certain type of IUD that woul...

I've been researching this for a while and I find myself going in an endless loop at this point between what sites I look at having different information and then hearing about personal experiences with different methods of birth control. I want have a pretty good idea of what my options are before ...

That's awesome to hear actually. Self harm scars don't have to be a sad thing, they're something I deal with for sure, but they don't define me. My stomach was also a big one for that, I was extremely self concious because my body isn't set up like a typical cis males, and it's nearly impossible for...

I'll definitely keep that in mind, the main thing I meant was it made me feel a little more comfortable saying I'm learning how to do this, and that I don't have much experience, but I'm willing to learn what suits him, as long as he's willing to do the same and both of us can be patient with that. ...

Thank you both for responding. Just for organizations sake I’m going to respond to each in order as best I can. Heather, I think what you said here really helps a lot, “ with a new partner, we will rarely "know what we are doing," and that'll often be the case for a good deal of the start ...

Mainly I meant with sex in general, and actually having/doing it. I’m struggling to phrase it in a way that isn’t weird but also one that makes sense. With actually experimenting with with sex, and in my case right now this would be oral, was that something that took time to in a way get better at d...

Although it definitely makes me feel a bit better hearing that sex can be quite awkward, and that it can be quite common, honestly, I’d prefer to stay out of the ER. I don’t even know how that would happen and I definitely don’t want to explain something, like that, to my parents. Its also really ni...

I think the main thing is like I've seen photos of the aftermath of what happens when braces get caught, and I just think if something did happen it would be so embarrassing on my part to have done that I think I'll to bring it up a little more, especially phrasing it a little differently, I like th...

Honestly what happened isn't something I hide anymore, I'm fine talking about it, I just know other people possibly reading it, might not want to hear about what happened. You don't have to apologise, it's something that's a part of my life, and part of that is working on trusting now. It's just som...