I want to give an update and tell the both of you that yesterday I got together with my girlfriend and we had a conversation on how I wanted a friendship between the three of us first and a sexual relationship second, that sex was okay but I wanted us to get together for other non-sexual events also...

I found myself in a situation and need advice. My friend and I have created a girl/girl relationship together. We kept it between us and nobody else knew. She found herself a boyfriend and I had no problem with it and we both agreed that we would not tell him and keep it simple. But we started talki...