Background info: I started testosterone exactly four weeks ago and my period started early this time, the cramps have been lighter but there's been more blood. Also as I've mentioned before I have never orgasmed to my knowledge Today was the first time in a while that I've masturbated while on my pe...

It's really more of an issue while I'm actively masturbating but sometimes I start feeling worried that if I look at something while feeling horny then it'll become something I'm attracted to somehow? This mostly applies to pictures of real people or animals. It's kind of similar to worries I have a...

Yes, I find it hard to let them pass. I feel very aware of my genitals and sometimes get a sort of tingly feeling down there or in my chest. It can last anywhere from a few minutes to several hours. It makes it hard to focus on other things, and I sometimes feel awkward interacting with people when ...

I find masturbation frustrating, as I've discussed before, but I find random arousal/horniness more irritating. Now I'm wondering if there's ways to get rid of that feeling without doing anything sexual - I like sexual stuff when I have time but often it's just really inconvenient. I've found that e...

so it's been a little while since I posted last and things have gotten largely better - I've stopped thinking so much about orgasming and have learned to just focus on feeling good in my body, and I've had some really good experiences since then! however there's one problem that's popped up that's a...

Thank you for your responses! I want to feel good is the main thing yeah - I've heard it releases tension, and it makes you feel happier or calmer or other positive emotions. I worry about wasting time because I don't have a lot of free time this semester and I feel like I could be using that time b...

this is related to my other thread but im feeling a lot of negative things and kinda just wanted to put them in their own place basically im 19 and ive never orgasmed and when I have sex with my boyfriend I don't really mind, it just keeps feeling good until it stops, but right now im at college awa...

I've masturbated a few times since posting this and I tried leaning into the feeling more but it still didn't put me over the edge. In fact, I've found I sometimes seem to get desensitized to the vibrator and I end up accidentally setting the vibrator to the rhythm setting just above the highest ste...

I've tried before but it just feels really hard to keep going. I could try asking him to not stop, but unfortunately we're currently long distance while we're at separate colleges so it's just me and my vibrator for a while and I don't know how to force myself to keep the vibrator going.

Hm I feel like the first one sounds more accurate? I usually lower the vibrator setting when it gets intense so that I don't hurt myself and hten it's not too much, so it's not that I can't take any touch at all. I'm pretty sure I've never had an orgasm based on the tension that stays in my body but...

I've been masturbating for around three years and having partnered sex for around two and I haven't orgasmed yet. Recently my boyfriend and I have experimented with using my vibrator together, and I've always found that it gets to a point where it feels really sensitive and overwhelming, so we stop ...

I'd like to have my boyfriend insert fingers into my vagina during sex, but every time he tries it hurts. I know I need to relax to make it easier, but I feel like I tense up automatically every time it starts. This is also an issue I've had with other orifices - I struggle a lot with covid tests be...

I have a few questions related to holes of the genital area, both about partnered sex and masturbation. I'm a nonbinary person with a vagina who hasn't transitioned medically at all. I have a cis boyfriend and we're fairly sexually active but haven't done anything penetrative. Neither of us wants to...

I'm nonbinary and have a vagina, etc. I touched my clitoral area for about ten minutes and now it feels kind of itchy there, is that a normal? It makes sitting a little uncomfortable but it's not unbearable.