Hi Al, It is important to me and it does bother me a lot but I still love him so much. So even if it should be a dealbreaker I feel like losing him is worse. He has come up with a compromise where I can do other sexual things that doesn't bother me as much instead of having sex with him. It's just t...

The thing is I always have a thought at the back of my head that things arent right but I love him so much. This sounds really dumb. I go through phases where i feel like i should leave but then I can't.

Hi Sam, Sorry for the late reply. For some reason my ip kept on getting blocked.. Well I've had like a bad experience before and because of this I find it difficult to have sex. He knows about this but he keeps pressuring me to do certain things. He doesn't say it directly but he says it indirectly ...

Is it too much to ask my boyfriend not to do sexual things and to ask him to stop pressuring me? He indirectly keeps on saying what he wants and he says if it's too much then i should just break things off. Plus I'm asking him to not smoke. I know its his life but he has heart problems so it scares ...