Thank you for the replies, Jacob and Mo. I'm aware that if I ask him what happened, he may lie to me, but I would hope he respects me enough to share his truth. What I don't know is whether I'll believe him, regardless of what he says; I want to think the best of him so it would be difficult to acce...

If this is the incorrect forum for this post, please do move it. I apologize if this post is triggering to anyone. I'm not in a good place to share a full story right now, but it recently came to my attention that my current lover was accused of committing statutory rape almost a decade ago. What's ...

CNS = central nervous system.

Hi MsBee, I want to give you a digital high five for experimenting with solutions to this, and exploring your body in the process. Something I'd ask is that, when you're masturbating, do you feel mentally really aroused? Or do you feel like you're doing a chore of some kind? Thanks :3 It's been fru...

Did anyone else experience weaker orgasms and libido issues after "losing their virginity" (in quotes because I don't agree with the terminology, but it's the most relatable). I noticed that my pelvic floor muscles felt very weak and strained during and after ending my first sexual relatio...

Let me clarify: 1. I've been a 32D/DD since freshman or sophomore year of high school, so that's going on seven years. Even when I lost ten pounds freshman year of college because of my sporadic eating habits, my breasts did not change in size. My entire body has been very consistent in terms of wei...

I seem to have lost a cup size in just the last couple weeks. My weight has not changed - I've been slightly underweight for over a year now, maybe two - and I'm not exercising more than usual (my exercise consists of walking around on my very hilly campus and going dancing once or twice a week, les...

B was definitely the case, and yes I think I've got what I need. Thanks!

Does it help with the pain? No, not when partnered, and I've mostly given up on using multiple fingers solo because one is more than sufficient, so there's no pain in that situation. I do analyze I guess, but I don't necessarily consider that bad: in general, I'm either enjoying what's happening, so...

Thanks Ashleah. I read the article you posted, and while I do share some issues with the girl who mailed in, I don't feel fear or nervousness when I explore myself; I'm usually quite calm and relaxed because I've just had an orgasm. I'm very comfortable with handling my body in general. For clarific...

I have not had the chance to. I'm currently at university, and doctor's appointments here are a 15 minute, cursory affair, so a waste of my time as far as I'm concerned. In my hometown, my primary care provider is excellent, but quite hard to get a hold of. And when I requested a full pelvic exam af...

Specifically 1) painful penetrative vaginal sex, of all kinds; and 2) loss of [pleasurable] sensation. Worth noting that this is mostly retrospective; I don't currently participate in partered sex. Excuse the essay to follow. 1) I have discovered in the last six months or so that I experience varyin...

Sounds similar to what I've been considering lately, in regards to the taking a step back with partnered sex. My partner and I had this discussion as well. I've never viewed orgasm as a "goal" so much as a "given;" like I said, I've never -not- come until recently. I'm content wi...

The sex, four weeks. Technically, we started being sexual when I was home for Thanksgiving break, but we didn't have intercourse until I came home for winter break.

Yes, very much so, and that's also part of my frustration. I love being around him and being touched by him, and, at least initially, my body reacts to his touch with an enthusiasm that has almost become a running joke between the two of us (I get really wet really quickly, even from seemingly casua...

No to all of your bullet questions :/ I'm very direct with him in regards to what feels good and what doesn't, for the most part. There are times when I don't tell him exactly what's going on (like "Stop touching my clit because it doesn't feel like anything...") but I do communicate when ...

I am a ~20 year old female. For the last several years I've been having wonderful, strong orgasms via manual masturbation. Recently, I acquired my first sexual partner. Since we started having sex, not only do not orgasm with him via penetrative, oral, or manual stimulation, but I also seem to have ...