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Disgusted with the feeling of my insides

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suomi
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Disgusted with the feeling of my insides

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Every time I try anal or vaginal fingering I get so disgusted with the feeling of my insides that all pleasure is lost. When I use toilet paper to finger myself it feels a little better but it's hard to keep that up. So I was wondering if there was anything else to be used? I'm too scared to put in anything more than 2 fingers so dildos are out of the question, but I want to keep doing it.
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Re: Disgusted with the feeling of my insides

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Hi suomi,

Do you have any ability to get latex gloves? Those would provide a barrier but also be safer to use than something like toilet paper, which could leave little pieces behind.

Too, do you have any sense of where that feeling of disgust is coming from? Is it purely just about the texture or feeling of your vaginal canal, or are there other reasons as well?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
suomi
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Re: Disgusted with the feeling of my insides

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That's a great idea actually! Thank you so much for the idea.

And I'm not sure, but every time I even think about the texture (specifically for anal) I get nauseous. I'd like to get over it if possible.
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Re: Disgusted with the feeling of my insides

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You're welcome!

You know, it can be tricky to try and over come disgust or repulsion to sensations; in some cases it's one of those things where we don't know why we can't stand a texture, we just can't. So while sometimes we can get over those feelings by, say, unpacking weird or shaming messages we got about genitals, but other times it's just never a texture we like and we find ways, like gloves, to work with that.
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
suomi
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Re: Disgusted with the feeling of my insides

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Got it! Thank you so much for your input. This helps a lot.
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Re: Disgusted with the feeling of my insides

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You're welcome!
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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