Mums solution to everything I say

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Curmudgeon
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Mums solution to everything I say

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Me// I have a headache
Her// your not eating enough

Me// my sleep schedule has gone bad the past couple of days
Her// that’s because your not doing anything in the day 🙄

Like excuse me who cleans the house :/

There’s more but would be here all day 🙄
Sam W
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Re: Mums solution to everything I say

Unread post by Sam W »

Hi Curmudgeon,

It can be so frustrating to feel like a parent isn't hearing us, or isn't offering sympathy or support when that's what we're aiming for!

Can you tell me a little more about your relationship with your mom? Is it otherwise positive and this is just a frustrating dynamic that's in the mix? Or is this part of a bigger pattern where you feel like your mom doesn't hear you or notice what you're actually doing?
And you to whom adversity has dealt the final blow/with smiling bastards lying to you everywhere you go/turn to and put out all your strength of arm and heart and brain/and like the Mary Ellen Carter rise again.
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