Should I keep wearing my chastity cage?

[leiap]

Hey there, first time posting on this board, hopefully this is the right place for my topic!

So I've been really into chastity cages since around 14 years old, probably from some pics I saw on social media back then. Bought one online back then and kinda got fed up with it.

Now I'm 17 and wanted to see how long I can lock my penis in a chastity cage for as a challenge to myself. So far I've been wearing it for 2 weeks straight without masturbating, I rarely get any irritations and has actually lowered my desire to masturbate.

The problem is that I start swimming training next week and was wondering if I should keep wearing the cage to swimming. I have worn it to the pool before just fine but since I'm in a more intensive training team, the coach requires everyone to wear a speedo that's very tight and reveals the outline of the cage, so I'm just wondering if I should wear the cage to training or should I take it off for training times. I get aroused very easily but I don't want to break my streak of not masturbating.

[HannahP]

Hi leiap! Welcome to our boards. This is the place to post about any topic at all, just so long as you only want a staff member or volunteer to answer your question (in the other sections, any users can chime in if they want.)

If the swim suit you're required to wear shows the outline of the cage, I think its best if you take it off for your practices. Experimenting with sex toys is great, but it should be kept private. Since you'll be busy with your training at the time, I don't think you need to worry about breaking your streak.

I will say that choosing not to masturbate for any reason is perfectly fine (as a challenge, just enjoying experimenting with the cage, etc.), but it's also completely fine and healthy to masturbate. If you do masturbate when you take the cage off, there's no harm done! If you're still committed to the idea of this challenge, maybe you could save it for after the swim season is over.

[leiap]

Hey there! Thank you for the reply!
Since I have to go to training 5 days a week, it'd be pretty annoying to constantly remove the cage and put it back on, my current idea is to wear something like a padding between the swim suit and the cage, it'll look like a larger bulge but will not show the outline of the cage. Another concern is that we are required to take a shower after the session, but the showering area is communal and people would probably see my cage if I don't keep my speedo on, would that be weird? Most people do take off their swim suits before showering, but I have seen a few wearing them.

I doubt that people would care that I'm showering with my speedo on but still.

Unrelated: I've heard that someone went swimming wearing a butt plug from one of my friends and that kinda got me hooked onto the idea and made me kinda want to try it. (would probably be very uncomfortable though)

[Heather]

It sounds to me like something you might not be considering is that if and when we're doing something sexual around other people they can see, we really need to think about consent. Including people in our scenes without their consent just isn't okay, so I'd personally consider that your training simply isn't a place for your sexual endeavors, period, and save those for private places when you are alone, or, if other people are involved in any way, in situations where you can get the consent of others.

Too, presumably, your attention when training should be on training, no? I'd figure that if you don't actually want it to be, maybe you want to rethink if training is actually something you want to do.

[leiap]

Ah, that makes sense. I think you're right. The horniness kinda overtook my judgement. Guess I'll just keep the cage and butt plug at the pool a fantasy in my head :p I kinda do have a kink of exposing myself to others but yea their consent is important too.

[Andy]

Hi there,

I’m glad Heather’s answer was helpful! I agree that it is best to enjoy these things just as fantasies where you are free to explore them however you want without needing the consent of others for that. As you said, in any situation, consent of others is important too, and I would say it is actually more important than the sexual interests of anyone involved.