My girlfriend and I feel really comfortable with one another whether we're being intimate or not. She's been on HRT for almost a year and her sex drive has increased quite a bit. Also, she says the "girl horny" (cool term haha) feels amazing and she keeps bringing up how she feels "surges of horny" many times a day and shares about them with me.
However, for me, I don't feel that. I don't get any such surges, and I feel like my libido is way lower than hers because I usually only feel horny once/twice a week. I get the urge to think about sexy thoughts and then masturbate, but not to the level of my girlfriend, who masturbates daily. All this kind of makes me jealous for some reason?! I wish I could appreciate my sex drive and also BE more horny, but I don't have this amazing "girl horny" that she or people online describe. My girlfriend keeps telling me often that "it feels so good" and I feel both happy for her and sadge that I can't feel that. Like I never feel this crazy cool nice feeling stuff?!
It also kind of makes me slightly concerned because I feel like to be a good partner I should match her sex drive, because I've heard online that people with higher sex drives feel like they regret dating/marrying their partners because they can't satisfy their sexual needs and I don't want my partner to feel unsatisfied or to feel like she wants to leave
My main question is, is it possible to get a higher sex drive? And how do I gain an appreciation for these sexy feelings like my girlfriend does?