Period or implantation blood?

[hillosash]

Hi, sorry for posting another questions. My gf and i did another dryhump session again we were soaking wet because of my precum and hers. I read that u can get implantation blood by doing that(?) and the range is to occur is after 10 to 14 days after we did that. She in still 13th day for the chance the implantation to occur but yesterday (13th day) she got bleeding.

I dont know whether is she in her period or implantation bleeding?

And is it normal to have her period from 35-40 days to suddenly became 30 days?

[Sam W]

Hi hillosash,

So, in order for implantation bleeding to occur, there has to be a pregnancy risk that's lead to a fertilized egg implanting into the wall of the uterus. As we discussed in your previous thread, dry humping with clothes on does not pose a pregnancy risk, no matter how much moisture is present.

And yes, it's common for there to be variation in someone's period from time to time, as bodies are not machines and menstrual cycles can be influenced by a bunch of different factors.

I think at this point, it's time to have a conversation with your girlfriend about needing to not engage in dry humping anymore, as it's clearly setting off your anxiety. Do you feel like you know how to have that conversation with her?

[hillosash]

So its period that my gf had?

We have stopped our activity since i talked about it because i feel so uneasy and worrying too much.

[Sam W]

I can't say for certain what the bleeding is, since I'm not a healthcare provider there talking to her. But if it looks and feels like her periods generally do, then you can assume it's her period.

[hillosash]

She said its her normal period, i dont need to worry do i?

[Nadine E.]

Hi hillsash - Since she's confirmed that it's her regular period, there's no need to worry. And it sounds like a good call that you've decided to take a step back from sexual activity for now since it's been causing you to worry so much.