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Dhrish
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Confused

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Hi, I am 28y Female.

I have never spoke about this to anyone . But I do want to discuss
I masterbate with cushion btw my leg. I do it everyday while watching porn. I think it’s out of Bordem and pleasure finding too. Do you think it’s bad to do it everyday?

Also , I just feel like while doing it , in a few minutes some switch turns off. I am feeling good good and suddenly it disappears and feels like I am not opening up myself?
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Re: Confused

Unread post by CaitlinEve »

Hi Dhrish, welcome to Scarleteen!

It's not bad to masturbate every day, as long as it's not impeding your life or causing you mental/physical pain. As for the second part of your post; arousal and libido are fickle and aren't always consistent! It may be that your mind wanders or you are treating masturbation as a 'chore', therefore it's not as stimulating to you compared to if you were giving it full attention. Does this make sense?
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