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SilverFalcon92
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Tips for masturbation

Unread post by SilverFalcon92 »

I have been masturbating since 13, and I want some tips on how to make my orgasm better. I used to only use my hands dry at first, then I used a lotion rather than a sex toy, which was a stroke from Temu. Then after, I used this other stroke called calce stroke and I love it. I tried a few sex toys, such as eorone, and I was disappointed by it. I didn’t reach orgasm anywhere near that point and my penis started to get soft and that was a big disappointment. Then the other one I used was called Hello Cake Spin Stroke, and it was the same thing, which was disappointing. I had used penis pumps before and that went well. My penis got bigger and regular size. I tried ball rings before and that was, but if a struggle to put them on, I haven’t tried it since. Anyway, what can I do to experience a better orgasm and I also want to use the butt plug since that’s where the g spot is at for a guy and I want some tips on that as well?
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Re: Tips for masturbation

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Hey there, SilverFalcon92.

We really can't give the kind of tips that you're asking for, in large part because as you're discovering, figuring out what does and doesn't work for you with masturbation is a process of your own experimentation: we have to just try things and see how they feel. Per information on butt plugs, you can find in-depth info on those on the site right here: https://www.scarleteen.com/read/sex-sex ... butt-plugs (Remember, the search function for the whole site is at the top right, and it can help you find what you're looking for in the thousands of pages of articles we have here.)

But asking for a "better" orgasm is also something where the answer usually isn't the kind of answer it sounds like you might think it is, where it's about what kind of toy you use. It would first be helpful to know what you mean by "better." What isn't satisfying for you with your orgasm experiences so far that you're hoping to change?
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