Probably not pregnant but worried?

[han1503]

It's been exactly one week today that I was supposed to get my period, or the fifth week without having a period. I have never engaged in either protected or unprotected sex, though I have been involved with oral stimulation with my boyfriend. My period is usually fairly regular and it being a week late has been awful terrifying. I really think the chances of me being pregnant are little to none, but the longer I wait for my period, the more fearful I get. Since waiting for my period I've researched many possible causes for a late period and the only possibly applicable one is stress. Though I haven't been super stressed, worrying about pregnancy has been stressful. I keep thinking that maybe if semen had been in my mouth and then kissed him and he later (an hour or so) orally stimulated me there's a slight chance I could have been fertiled? Or maybe it's something worse than pregnancy? Or I just missed a period somehow? Or it's just really late? My mother is also aware of my late period and is suspectful that I could have engaged in actual sex, which is not true. I'm wondering when or if I should alert someone of my missed/late period. I just keep hoping every day my period will come to save me from all this worry.
Thanks!

[Sam W]

Hi Han,

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You mentioned some things about your cycle and your mom. We've made a new thread to talk about that with you here: http://www.scarleteen.com/bb/viewtopic.php?f=5&t=3926

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