asking a girl out
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asking a girl out
So im into this girl i see three days a week i would like to ask her out but i dont know where to start becuase the only thing i have said to her the last few months is good morning.We attend the same college but we only see each in the mornings and live off campus, im a bit nervious because i have never asked a girl out, meaning i have never had a girl before or kissed one before so yes i might be a bit nervous.let me just give you a quick background to why im a 23 year old who has been single for all of his life, i guess it all comes down to me having a body image problem specifically to my penis and i kinda got that sorted out and thats why i think im ready for the dating scene.
Can you help me out to make this less awkward?, your help would be much appreciated.
Can you help me out to make this less awkward?, your help would be much appreciated.
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Re: asking a girl out
Hi whoami?,
If you want to ask her out, the direct route is often the best route. Something like, "hey, you seem cool, and I was wondering if you'd like too go for coffee/see a movie/some other activity with me." She may say yes, in which case, hooray. Or she may say no, so it's good to be prepared to take her "no" gracefully.
I think you'd also find Dr Nerdlove's site helpful. He has a ton of tips to help people with little dating experience get more comfortable in the dating scene: http://www.doctornerdlove.com/
If you want to ask her out, the direct route is often the best route. Something like, "hey, you seem cool, and I was wondering if you'd like too go for coffee/see a movie/some other activity with me." She may say yes, in which case, hooray. Or she may say no, so it's good to be prepared to take her "no" gracefully.
I think you'd also find Dr Nerdlove's site helpful. He has a ton of tips to help people with little dating experience get more comfortable in the dating scene: http://www.doctornerdlove.com/
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- Joined: Mon Feb 27, 2017 5:36 am
- Age: 30
- Awesomeness Quotient: i guess im still figuring this one out
- Primary language: Afrikaans/English
- Pronouns: he/him
- Sexual identity: im a male and im into females
- Location: South Africa
Re: asking a girl out
Thanks i'll do that
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