Pregnancy scare

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Jambo
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Pregnancy scare

Unread post by Jambo »

Me and my girlfriend were dry jumping and I pre cummed after about 5 mins I checked the inside of my under wear and it was damp (it was not wet) at this point I left the room for two minutes and my fingers must have rubbed on many things and when I got back my fingers seemed dry, I touched her vagina not inserting it (no fingering) just touched it for like 5 seconds or so
I'm now really stressing out that the precum on my finger could have made her pregnant even though it seemed dry ( there was no semen)
The thing is that she was ovulating at the time and this is freaking me out, I also did not ejaculate that day and urinanted twice before this (i.e. After my last ejaculation the day before) this is really scarring me I'm not ready to be a parent please help me out!!
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Re: Pregnancy scare

Unread post by Eddie C »

We will not answer ANY questions about pregnancy fear or anxiety in our direct services from users who are not pregnant or who are not or have not otherwise been directly involved with an actual pregnancy.

Please do not post this kind of question. If you are seeing this text, and your thread is locked, it is because you have posted this kind of question.

We CAN and WILL talk about things like:
• choosing and using a method or methods of contraception for any future sexual activity
• creating your own sexual limits and boundaries based on your needs and/or presenting them to any partners
• making sexual choices that suit your own needs, abilities and limitations, including your own readiness for certain possible risks
• help locating or using emergency contraception if and when you have had a pregnancy risk
• discussing options with a real, existing pregnancy, and help finding and accessing those options, such as abortion services and pre-natal care, or discussing feelings or concerns about a past pregnancy
• help with anxiety like locating mental health services, sound self-help or asking for support from friends or family

For help dealing with a scare (including what poses a risk and your next steps based on your unique situation), you may use our tool on site built for this purpose: The Pregnancy Panic Companion.
For help with anxiety, click here.
For related help and information at Scarleteen, click here.
If you would like more information about this policy, click here.
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