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I’ve been dating this guy for half a year, we’ve been official for about two months and we know each other for a year. We made a weekend trip and I thought that was a great way to bond. But he wouldn’t initiate sex.. (even though we had a lot of sex.. it was me who made it happen).
Now I know that he felt weird back then that he didn’t feel like opening up to me because he got badly hurt on his last relationship. And that makes me feel used.. it also makes me wonder if I sexually abused him.. (because I feel I made him have sex with me even though he didn’t want to at least not as muchas I did).
Ok so I also feel lied to and embarrassed because I though we were in a place in the relationship and we were actually in another.
He says everyday he opens up more to me and that his falling in Love each day a bit more. But that he is slow and he need time and he doesn’t want to feel pressured.
I don’t want to feel abandoned or like I’m just a sidekick. We have talked about it and decided to meet halfway (my idea) I will not pressure him and he will not make me feel abandoned.
I just want a healthy relationship and I think this one is one I just don’t want to ruin it. I don’t want to be clingy, but also I don’t want to be left out.
What are your thoughts on this ?