Not sure how to start this to be completely honest
I'm 16 and can't really do anything in person.
I wanna talk about the things I'm into, but (for obvious reasons) everything is 18+.
I'm not sure where to talk about it, if there even is anywhere to talk about it but it's kinda eating me up inside???
Idk, sry if this is breaking any rules, I don't intent to.
How to find people with the same fetish?
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Re: How to find people with the same fetish?
Hi Privvysivvy565, and welcome to the boards! 
Don’t worry, you’re not breaking any rules by asking about this. I am sorry to hear that this is eating you up inside! You’re right, because you’re 16, 18+ spaces are not spaces where you can currently go. Is there a reason you wanted to talk about what you’re interested in, do you need advice or were you looking to find people with similar interests?
Also, I wanted to ask about the word “fetish.” I know people tend to use the words “kink” and “fetish” often, but these terms do mean something specific. For example, a “fetish” is not a preference, it’s an object that is requires for someone to experience sexual arousal. From what you’re describing, it sounds like this is maybe more of a sexual interest or preference. Did I understand you correctly there?
Don’t worry, you’re not breaking any rules by asking about this. I am sorry to hear that this is eating you up inside! You’re right, because you’re 16, 18+ spaces are not spaces where you can currently go. Is there a reason you wanted to talk about what you’re interested in, do you need advice or were you looking to find people with similar interests?
Also, I wanted to ask about the word “fetish.” I know people tend to use the words “kink” and “fetish” often, but these terms do mean something specific. For example, a “fetish” is not a preference, it’s an object that is requires for someone to experience sexual arousal. From what you’re describing, it sounds like this is maybe more of a sexual interest or preference. Did I understand you correctly there?
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