Is it weird that I don’t want to swallow cum?

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gnarp_gnarp_2
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Is it weird that I don’t want to swallow cum?

Unread post by gnarp_gnarp_2 »

Sometimes I swallow it because I want to but I usually don’t swallow all of it and I have a fear of bomitting which makes things more difficult some times.
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Re: Is it weird that I don’t want to swallow cum?

Unread post by char »

Hey gnarp_gnarp_2,

Nope, it's not weird at all! Some people may be more prone to vomitting, but others are not. In the end, it's up to you whether you want to swallow your partner's ejaculation or not.

Have there been any issues between you and your partner about this that you'd like to share?
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gnarp_gnarp_2
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Re: Is it weird that I don’t want to swallow cum?

Unread post by gnarp_gnarp_2 »

Nah not really, I was just asking since everyone seemed to really like it and I like the idea of it but actually doing it is more difficult and different
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Re: Is it weird that I don’t want to swallow cum?

Unread post by char »

I see, thanks for clarifying. As you can probably tell, some people do enjoy swallowing their partner's ejaculation after giving them oral or manual sex, sometimes because they like the feeling of "consuming" their partner in more ways than one. Not to mention that sexual media (including porn) makes the process seem more seamless than it is in real life and beautifully messy. Never mind that it may take some time for someone in real life to get used to it, or never at all--both are okay.
the shining stars when the night falls / and the sun that leaves behind the sunset glow / they all have their unique colors! (=^・ェ・^=)
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