Dating monogamous person; developed a poly crush too! What do I do...
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Tara
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Re: Dating monogamous person; developed a poly crush too! What do I do...
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DaytimeDreemurr
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Re: Dating monogamous person; developed a poly crush too! What do I do...
Figured I should give another update to this 
1. My partner would not be comfortable if I went and pursued my crush. Therefore, I do not want to do that. Honestly very shrimple
2. My crush has honestly been waning to begin with? I will fully acknowlegde it was absolutely a crush but i've had less feelings of that nature lately. I'm still gonna be close friends with her dont get me wrong, it still makes me so very happy to see her at school, but I can hardly call it a crush anymore lol
Thanks for your help though yall! I may very well have to be here again if I end up in another situation XP
..though im not sure if I legally can because im turning 18 soon. Unclear
1. My partner would not be comfortable if I went and pursued my crush. Therefore, I do not want to do that. Honestly very shrimple
2. My crush has honestly been waning to begin with? I will fully acknowlegde it was absolutely a crush but i've had less feelings of that nature lately. I'm still gonna be close friends with her dont get me wrong, it still makes me so very happy to see her at school, but I can hardly call it a crush anymore lol
Thanks for your help though yall! I may very well have to be here again if I end up in another situation XP
..though im not sure if I legally can because im turning 18 soon. Unclear
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Latha
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Re: Dating monogamous person; developed a poly crush too! What do I do...
Hello DaytimeDreemurr,
I'm glad we could help you! You are welcome back after you turn 18--this service is for teens and emerging adults. (The way I think of it, our usual age group is between 13 and 30 years old. )
I'm glad we could help you! You are welcome back after you turn 18--this service is for teens and emerging adults. (The way I think of it, our usual age group is between 13 and 30 years old. )
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