masturbation + orgasm
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masturbation + orgasm
so basically I'm in the 14-16 age range which mean I CAN'T buy any vibrators or anything so I've been using a (clean not used in mouth EVER) electric toothbrush. my issue is that the closest I ever get to orgasm is a few twitches and some vaginal contractions. tbh I want more... I want to be like shaking and stuff but all I have is this toothbrush and I also have pretty limited time. does anyone have any tips or anything?
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Re: masturbation + orgasm
Hello and welcome to the boards, Okey-dokey!
So, I'm hearing that you would like you like to feel more from sex than you are feeling right now. We can talk about how that might happen, yes.
To start, I want to note that orgasms are essentially a peak and release of tension in the body, and they often involve muscle contractions like you described. So, it is possible that the twitches that you've noticed are orgasms, just ones that are not leaving you with the feeling that you are looking for. The way you experience an orgasm can change from time to time and day to day, so this isn't a issue for your question.
One thing we know is that orgasms tend to be stronger/more fulfilling when you are more fulfilled by the activities that preceded them. So, if you are looking for a stronger sensation during orgasm, it might be more helpful to focus on exploring what makes sex in general feel good for you, and trying new things to see how you feel. Sex toys are one way to do this, but not the only one. To give you a sense of what you could try, I'd like to share some resources on masturbation and fantasy. Would you read over them and let us know what you think?
So, I'm hearing that you would like you like to feel more from sex than you are feeling right now. We can talk about how that might happen, yes.
To start, I want to note that orgasms are essentially a peak and release of tension in the body, and they often involve muscle contractions like you described. So, it is possible that the twitches that you've noticed are orgasms, just ones that are not leaving you with the feeling that you are looking for. The way you experience an orgasm can change from time to time and day to day, so this isn't a issue for your question.
One thing we know is that orgasms tend to be stronger/more fulfilling when you are more fulfilled by the activities that preceded them. So, if you are looking for a stronger sensation during orgasm, it might be more helpful to focus on exploring what makes sex in general feel good for you, and trying new things to see how you feel. Sex toys are one way to do this, but not the only one. To give you a sense of what you could try, I'd like to share some resources on masturbation and fantasy. Would you read over them and let us know what you think?
- Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation (This article has a section on some common ways people masturbation a little way down.)
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