Scared of anal.

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wingsof-feather
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Scared of anal.

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Hello, and thank you to whoever reads this. I'm writing to ask for help with anal.
I'm a twenty-something transwoman. My girlfriend is also a transwoman. Neither of us have gotten or wish for bottom surgery. I'm a strict bottom- I have never wanted to put my penis inside anything.
I'm somewhat scared of anal. The idea of thing going inside my butt in that way makes me feel a bit queasy- ive never known why. The few times I've attempted anal I bleed, and I'm too tight for anyone to fit in. My gf is... very well endowed and it scares me for the future. I've tried just using my fingers as a way to get myself used to it but it still always makes me feel queasy. My questions are, how can I help myself get over this fear? How can I become able to take it without bleeding and whike being able to fit it inside me?
Thank you very much for your time. 💜
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