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Masturbation

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I’m a 16 year old male and I’m really horny a lot of the time and I really wanna masturbate but it doesn’t feel good I want masturbation toys and after I masturbate I get hard almost instantly again what do I do
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Re: Masturbation

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Hi randomteen_02,

Masturbation is all about exploring what it is we think feels good. I linked a few articles from our site which might be helpful - including one on sex toys.

Going Solo: The Basics of Masturbation

D.I.Y Sex Toys: Self-Love Edition

Masturbation does need to end because of ejaculation or an orgasm. It may be that your body wants to keep going after that - and that is ok. I wonder if leading with what your body is desiring is a good next step.
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Re: Masturbation

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I’ve already read these so many times I have basically nothing to make a reusable diy sex toy let alone a single use diy sex toy I masturbated in a condom before it was so nice
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Re: Masturbation

Post by amber »

Ok! Sex toys are not this perfect recipe for making masturbation feel good. They are really just fun toys that we may, or may not, enjoy.

Why not masturbate with condoms more if it has felt good in the past?

What are you most looking for from us here?
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Re: Masturbation

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Advice for how to make it feel better I would do it with condoms again but I have no money and no way to get them due to having zero privacy and just a little every blue moon
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Re: Masturbation

Post by amber »

Alrighty! So there is no recipe or one size fits all guide to masturbation and we are not going to walk you through a how-to here. What feels good for you may feel bad to another person. That is why exploration is so important! That first article I sent listed out some specific types of touch that people often like, have you started by trying out those things?

As for condoms, there are often places where we can get them for free such as health clinics, schools, and sometimes places like libraries. That access may be something to look into.

I also wonder if the lubrication of the condom was a factor in why you were feeling good. Do you often use lubrication of any sort to masturbate?
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Re: Masturbation

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The lube felt so great but being able to see my penis when it was inside of the condom I imagined it was a vulva like in the videos and is my penis supposed to twitch like crazy
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