Scarleteen

Thank you!! That makes me feel much better. So we hung out yesterday and I was feeling slightly aroused (not fully, but i’ll work with it). When he tried to please me, I asked him to tell me to relax and he basically got the hint of what I wanted. It made it much easier for me to relax and although I still couldn’t feel much pleasure I’m hoping its a start and that we’ll get there.

I'm glad the conversation went well! It sounds like you two are still doing a good job of communicating and checking in with each other during sex, which can make both pleasure and relaxation easier to reach.